"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What does AFC stand for?

Also, how long do threads last before they are deleted or moved to archives?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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FoolsCause said:
What does AFC stand for?

Regular guy, uneducated in seduction science, and also having poor social skills. A55 kissing nice guy who likes holding hands around camp fire, fagget. http://www.fastseduction.com/acronyms.shtml for all acronyms. It's ok to be an AFC. 90% of men are AFC. Acknowledging that you are an AFC is first step in becoming an RAFC.




Also, how long do threads last before they are deleted or moved to archives?

Getting approval from the threads you post is an AFC behavior. Ultimate DJ does not need approvals from anybody or anything. If your thread has been deleted, you should not get defensive. Assume there is something to learn from what happened. Always.




Start your recovery. Get motivated: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=112673
 

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djSlvt said:
Getting approval from the threads you post is an AFC behavior. Ultimate DJ does not need approvals from anybody or anything. If your thread has been deleted, you should not get defensive. Assume there is something to learn from what happened. Always.
Huh? I haven't had a thread deleted. I want to know because there's some good threads I want to printout before they're deleted, but print ink is spendy so I don't want to be in a rush to printout everything.
 
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