yo wuts good?? i'm 5'8 i weigh 145 lbs im 15 going on 16 in a few months, and currently im trying to eat alot to gain wieght and build muscle mass, in the weight gaining part last month i weighed 135lbs and now i weigh 145 lbs hoping that my scale in the bathroom is correct, and as far as the building muscle mass part, i havent seen a difference, im very skinny and i have a 4 pack when i bend over slightly and flex, im trying to get my bottom 2 but its hard, and i dont go to the gym, i have my own dumbell, barbell, and a little workout machine (lat pull downs, pec decks, leg lifts, seated cable row, etc) in my backyard and thats what ive been using, i am trying to lift heavy and do low reps, but i havent seen a big difference (i can curl 25 like 7 times, its heavy for me) so if u can help this poor ectomorph turn into something bigger and i need advice and help on my 2 lower abs(i do hanging knee raises but i dont feel a thing in my lowers), and my overall muscle thanks, if u need pics, just tell me ill try and post some.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Help this Ectomorph
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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You should go into the h&f forum, or go to anabolicminds.com. And muscles wont get you chicks, so make sure your doing it for you.
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Really? Muscles certainly help out. Some girls won't even go for a guy with no muscles, though I guess that a good DJ could overcome an obstacle like that.navyseal2101 said:You should go into the h&f forum, or go to anabolicminds.com. And muscles wont get you chicks, so make sure your doing it for you.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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hmm..muscles aren't necessary but they can help...usually the problem is that most of the buff guys at school/jocks are funny too but lack the ability to mentally stimulate a girl...some girls like a guy who can get deep...but others just want a guy that can screw em hard i guess
if you want to work on your lower 2 abs...or abs in general...ive been doing this simple routine since 5th grade and it has always worked...BUT..i don't have much fat and i'm tall so it's not hard for me to get defined abs....for lower abs though, i just do planks and leg raises and pikes...for upper abs the ancient sit up/crunch....obliques i do crossover crunch looking things...and bicycles for the hell of it...running helps too of course..and basically core endurance exercises
if you want to work on your lower 2 abs...or abs in general...ive been doing this simple routine since 5th grade and it has always worked...BUT..i don't have much fat and i'm tall so it's not hard for me to get defined abs....for lower abs though, i just do planks and leg raises and pikes...for upper abs the ancient sit up/crunch....obliques i do crossover crunch looking things...and bicycles for the hell of it...running helps too of course..and basically core endurance exercises
If you want abs:
-lose weight
-lots of sit ups
-lots of crunches
They are the basic steps, and work very well if you keep at them.
It's best to work out all your muscles though. It takes time, good sleep, lots of protein, hard work, and persistence.
-lose weight
-lots of sit ups
-lots of crunches
They are the basic steps, and work very well if you keep at them.
It's best to work out all your muscles though. It takes time, good sleep, lots of protein, hard work, and persistence.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The only way to get abs is to have a low bf %Captain said:If you want abs:
-lose weight
-lots of sit ups
-lots of crunches
They are the basic steps, and work very well if you keep at them.
It's best to work out all your muscles though. It takes time, good sleep, lots of protein, hard work, and persistence.
Take a pic with your shirt off, then we can see what your at and what you need to start
Here: http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=108535881&highlight=rippetoesEctomorph said:i went to the website but i couldnt find it, i looked in forums, can u send me the link to the rippetoe thing
Look for stuff like this, as well, to see what you can do
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=112845341&highlight=rippetoes
here r sum pics, first one is not flexiin second is slightly bent over and flexin
http://img22.imageshack.us/img22/2911/photo0088r.jpg
http://img15.imageshack.us/img15/9567/photo0089p.jpg
http://img22.imageshack.us/img22/2911/photo0088r.jpg
http://img15.imageshack.us/img15/9567/photo0089p.jpg
From those pictures, all you need to do is lose weight.
Everyone has abs, most people have too much fat over the top. So if you want to see abs, lose weight. Exercising them will help increase their size, but you still need to lose weight to have them be visible.
Everyone has abs, most people have too much fat over the top. So if you want to see abs, lose weight. Exercising them will help increase their size, but you still need to lose weight to have them be visible.
lose weight?? i weigh 145 and im skinny as hell, all around my arms and shoulders and stuff and when i suck in my stomach u can see my rib cage clearly, and im trying to eat alot cuz i wanna gain wieght and put on muscle mass since in so skinny, so idk if i shuld lose wight cuz at the bottom abs its either fat or my 7 layers of skin covering them so ??? help lol
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bro, if youre looking to bulk up, google "mark rippetoe's starting strength". It is a very basic compound movement-oriented workout program designed especially for beginners and for skinny guys looking to bulk and gain strength. This is basically what the workout is about:
Workout A
squats - 3 sets of 5
bench press - 3 sets of 5
deadlift - 1 set of 5
Workout B
squats - 3 sets of 5
military press - 3 sets of 5
powercleans/backrows - 3 sets of 5 (2 sets of 5 for powercleans)
You lift 3 times a week alternating each workout, so it would be likeday 1 - workout a day 2 - workout b day 3 - workout a -2 days rest- day 4 - workout b and so on.
Basically, you will be doing heavy compound exercises (5 rep max) and it will help you stimulate your body and cause you to grow.
I myself have been a scrawny dude (6'0 130) but thanks to this program and ALOT of eating, I managed to bulk up 10 pounds in about 2 months. My goal for the summer is to gain 15 more pounds.
I must warn you; these exercises require very presise form. You might want to ask a very experienced lifter to help you do the exercises right.
The most important thing about bulking, however, is you have to eat like a madman. Right now, my calorie intake is roughly 3500-4000 calories a day.
You have to eat at least 6 times a day. Eat alot with every meal. Eat carbs, fat and protein. For me personally, I dont care about gaining fat, I am very skinny and welcome all gains. I also do about 30 minutes of cardio a week.
It is very hard for us ectomorphs to gain dude, but it is definetely worth it. Even though I've only gained 10 pounds, I can feel my testostarone going up. I feel horny as hell constantly, I am now constantly feeling hungry, I have tons more energy and tons more confidence. Even my voice sounds more confident and deeper. Not to mention, I am a lot stronger. And I think girls are noticing, because out of the blue I now get chicks starting to talk to me.
Anyways, it is a tough road but it is definetely worth it. Good luck meng.
Workout A
squats - 3 sets of 5
bench press - 3 sets of 5
deadlift - 1 set of 5
Workout B
squats - 3 sets of 5
military press - 3 sets of 5
powercleans/backrows - 3 sets of 5 (2 sets of 5 for powercleans)
You lift 3 times a week alternating each workout, so it would be likeday 1 - workout a day 2 - workout b day 3 - workout a -2 days rest- day 4 - workout b and so on.
Basically, you will be doing heavy compound exercises (5 rep max) and it will help you stimulate your body and cause you to grow.
I myself have been a scrawny dude (6'0 130) but thanks to this program and ALOT of eating, I managed to bulk up 10 pounds in about 2 months. My goal for the summer is to gain 15 more pounds.
I must warn you; these exercises require very presise form. You might want to ask a very experienced lifter to help you do the exercises right.
The most important thing about bulking, however, is you have to eat like a madman. Right now, my calorie intake is roughly 3500-4000 calories a day.
You have to eat at least 6 times a day. Eat alot with every meal. Eat carbs, fat and protein. For me personally, I dont care about gaining fat, I am very skinny and welcome all gains. I also do about 30 minutes of cardio a week.
It is very hard for us ectomorphs to gain dude, but it is definetely worth it. Even though I've only gained 10 pounds, I can feel my testostarone going up. I feel horny as hell constantly, I am now constantly feeling hungry, I have tons more energy and tons more confidence. Even my voice sounds more confident and deeper. Not to mention, I am a lot stronger. And I think girls are noticing, because out of the blue I now get chicks starting to talk to me.
Anyways, it is a tough road but it is definetely worth it. Good luck meng.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.