"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Driver

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Thanks for the replies! (Although we nearly got a flame war!)

I quickly read through all the replies and it seems the general consensus is that I should go below parallel with squats, which is what I intend to do. (Don't worry about me going overboard; if anything, I won't push myself enough!).

I guess I'll start with lower weights and work up to a comfortable level. By that, I mean a level where the last time in a set is manageable, but barely.

Because the first week is 'max testing' week, I'll post up my journal sometime next week (or should I just add it to this thread?).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Quagmire911

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Driver said:
Thanks for the replies! (Although we nearly got a flame war!)

I quickly read through all the replies and it seems the general consensus is that I should go below parallel with squats, which is what I intend to do. (Don't worry about me going overboard; if anything, I won't push myself enough!).

I guess I'll start with lower weights and work up to a comfortable level. By that, I mean a level where the last time in a set is manageable, but barely.

Because the first week is 'max testing' week, I'll post up my journal sometime next week (or should I just add it to this thread?).
I would start a separate thread for the journal.

Have you been practicing your technique with just a barbell? If not then it wouldn't be advisable to max test, or indeed start piling weight on the bar. If you feel your able to to do it properly however, then go for a 5RM. And remember to warm up. If you can, post up a video of your squats and then people can suggest improvements.

Good luck,

Quagmire
 
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