Help! Seeing girl for 1+ month, no sex

[Nivek]

So I've been seeing this girl for over a month now and I still have yet to have sex with her. She willingly gives me *******s/handjobs etc etc but everytime I try to go for sex she stops me saying she isn't ready. She has "committment problems"

We're not techincallly dating but she knows I'm seeing her and shes seeing me. We get into a fight about this because I'm frustrated we still havn't had sex yet (I was drunk and realize I was kinda pressureing her into a relationship (bad move)). Anyways I'm not even quite sure if I want to talk to her. One thing I do know is that I can't stay in this "relationship" if we're not going to have sex.

How should I bring this situation up the next time I talk to her? Should I just tell her how I feel about this whole situation?? I've always thought that sex should just come in the heat of the moment, it feels weird telling a girl that not having sex is frustrating me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

cliff notes. Seeing girl for 1+ month, get *******s/handjobs, won't have sex, how should I tell her that I want sex??

Basically I don't really care if we're in a relationship or not, I just want steady sex/hanging out with her. The title doesn't matter.

 

[Maxtro]

Have you made her come yet? If not, you should.

If you have get her all worked up using your fingers or mouth, then just stick it in her. Or when she is close to the edge say something like, "I'm not going to let you come till you you tell me you want my d1ck."

 

[DonJuan11]

That's alot of use of the word "sex". 9 times in 2 paragraphs.

I have had the same problem. I wouldn't pressure her. Just keeping chasing other girls and keep her on the side.

 

[achtungiono]

If you want sex and you ain't getting any from her. Move ON!

Why waste 1 month of your life on someone that obviously doesn't fulfill your needs. There are plenty of fish in the ocean.