jeff_reigert
Don Juan
Thanks in advance for reading my post and offering advice. I'm somewhat new to the forums. :rockon:
I am very lucky to have always been socially intelligent. Also a sharp dresser and constantly getting compliments. However, I was never confident in my looks, and I also never put two and two together that I could use my social intelligence to attract women.
A year or so ago, I read Sr. Finger's post, "Weapons of Mass Seduction", which opened my eyes to the community. I became familiar with SS, the Mystery Method (and its derivatives), "The Game", and other resources like Robert Greene's "Art of Seduction".
I am attending a small Catholic liberal arts college, and I feel that this surrounding has done wonders for my game. This is because I have made it my empire, I can go anywhere and be recognized by anyone, "merge" groups together effortlessly, and it puts my social proof through the roof. (I know I sound like a douche saying this, but its the truth.)
Anyway, one of my concerns is that after I graduate in May and move back to Chicago, I will be starting fresh as a chump again. I never really even learned how to "open" just because everyone would approach me. It was just sort of a natural thing to start talking to people or get introduced through friends of friends. I feel like after studying the game for such a long time, I may have not even learned anything.
This is obvious to me when I pull a different girl every night up at school, but then get home to the city and end up going home alone every night.
Its kind of like what Neil Strauss did in his chump days, memorizing every tip from opening to seduction, while postponing actually trying it in the field. I know what I "should" do, but I haven't put it all together yet. I think I may have to go through the "Stylelife Challenge" 30 day thing and work on everything one step at a time instead of memorizing it all at once.
Here is the situation in question
The summer before I started college, I was seeing a girl from my neighborhood that I meet at a party. She was a bit younger, and quite immature at the time, but cute. (also was the younger sister of an acquaintance) The result was that she was great to get hammered with and fool around with, but things didn't work out and it wasn't a big deal. I remember her being crazy about me though.
The last night I saw her, we had some big argument about something stupid and I ended up deleting her number from my phone. Fast forward to now, I see this girl on facebook and she has blossomed. (HB9 or 10).
I shoot her a message saying we should hang over break (which I just got home for) and get her number. Now I'm back in town and I want to play things right.
I know I should avoid the whole "oneitis" thing and I have other girls on the backburner, but I'd also like to see this work out. I have this sneaking feeling that she has probably grown in to her inner-hottie and realizes how smoking she is and it won't be as easy as it was before...
I am very lucky to have always been socially intelligent. Also a sharp dresser and constantly getting compliments. However, I was never confident in my looks, and I also never put two and two together that I could use my social intelligence to attract women.
A year or so ago, I read Sr. Finger's post, "Weapons of Mass Seduction", which opened my eyes to the community. I became familiar with SS, the Mystery Method (and its derivatives), "The Game", and other resources like Robert Greene's "Art of Seduction".
I am attending a small Catholic liberal arts college, and I feel that this surrounding has done wonders for my game. This is because I have made it my empire, I can go anywhere and be recognized by anyone, "merge" groups together effortlessly, and it puts my social proof through the roof. (I know I sound like a douche saying this, but its the truth.)
Anyway, one of my concerns is that after I graduate in May and move back to Chicago, I will be starting fresh as a chump again. I never really even learned how to "open" just because everyone would approach me. It was just sort of a natural thing to start talking to people or get introduced through friends of friends. I feel like after studying the game for such a long time, I may have not even learned anything.
This is obvious to me when I pull a different girl every night up at school, but then get home to the city and end up going home alone every night.
Its kind of like what Neil Strauss did in his chump days, memorizing every tip from opening to seduction, while postponing actually trying it in the field. I know what I "should" do, but I haven't put it all together yet. I think I may have to go through the "Stylelife Challenge" 30 day thing and work on everything one step at a time instead of memorizing it all at once.
Here is the situation in question
The summer before I started college, I was seeing a girl from my neighborhood that I meet at a party. She was a bit younger, and quite immature at the time, but cute. (also was the younger sister of an acquaintance) The result was that she was great to get hammered with and fool around with, but things didn't work out and it wasn't a big deal. I remember her being crazy about me though.
The last night I saw her, we had some big argument about something stupid and I ended up deleting her number from my phone. Fast forward to now, I see this girl on facebook and she has blossomed. (HB9 or 10).
I shoot her a message saying we should hang over break (which I just got home for) and get her number. Now I'm back in town and I want to play things right.
I know I should avoid the whole "oneitis" thing and I have other girls on the backburner, but I'd also like to see this work out. I have this sneaking feeling that she has probably grown in to her inner-hottie and realizes how smoking she is and it won't be as easy as it was before...