"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Help Quitting Smoking

Sofomore

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Has anyone here successfully quit smoking cigarettes? I am only 22 but I smoke about 4 a day. I want to kick this habit as early as possible but I have already relapsed once.

Your personal story or any e-books that helped would be much appreciated!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Purefilth

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Yeah man. Cold turkey. I'm still free from the little bastards. ;-)
 

speed dawg

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You just have to do it. I never thought I could quit but I have now. Just grab your nuts and do it.
 

Sofomore

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Threw away all my tobacco yesterday, today is day 2. Had some crazy dreams and am catching myself being a little grumpy. Cold turkey is definitely the way to go.
 

TheStig

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I don't smoke often, just bum cigs off friends sometimes. However, this weekend showed me that I need to even stop doing that. Went to a 5 keg party Saturday, probably smoked 5 cigs just in that night (was drinking obviously), and today during my workout, I felt that sh1t affecting me hardcore. Every time I went to take a deep breath, I just had this horrible feeling like my lungs couldn't expand all the way, almost as if I was dragging on a cig, and I'd get a little light headed. Damn that's enough to show me how no good comes of smoking.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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just realize that tobacco use is moronic. if that doesn't fix it for you, then nature will wipe you out soon enough.
 
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