"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys, I could use some help quickly as I have to leave in a couple of hours for this thing.

The plot:

So last weekend me and a friend (guy) go to a college to party and visit with a neighbor of ours (a girl) and some of her friends. Well one thing leads to another and me and one of the girl's roommates end up hooking up. Now we were both intoxicated but we ended up spending the night together.

In the morning it turns out she has a boyfriend, but I play it off cool like I don't know, and I just act really 'chill'.

I find out a couple days later that she really likes me, which is good cause during the sober moments (and intoxicated ) i liked her too.

Now today my friend spent some time with the 2 girls just hanging out and it turns out she's changed her mind and is saying things such as 'I don't even remember what he looks like'.

In a couple hours the 4 of us are all going ice skating, any ideas on how to get her to stop acting like a b*tch and entertain the thought of her liking me again? Thanks for the help all.

-BlackAccord

PS-My plan thus far is to try and ignore her most of the night so I play a little fire with fire, which is what I'm very much expecting from her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Where is her boyfriend?

You slammed this chick, who has a boyfriend, basically infront of her roomates... that's ****ed... How did you find out she has a boyfriend?

Just out of curiousity.. you slammed her -- did you get her number? (okay, she IS your neighbor) you haven't spoken with her since?

She got drunk and cheated on her boyfriend - and you want to be her boyfriend, or atleast slam her again.

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I'd say, if you haven't spoken with her since.. (not even an akward passing? since you ARE neighbors?...) ... play it cool.. (WHY didn't you talk to her?!) theres plenty of kino to apply during ice skating... gauge her attitude, i mean.. she's probably going through a lot of stuff (like deciding whether or not to dump/tell her boyfriend that she cheated) ... the fact that you're all going to go skating together is a good sign that she'll probably be receptive..

I don't know where you are ethically on the issue - but if you just want to pick up some piece, then go for it... JUST REMEMBER

you can't turn a ***** into a housewife.
 
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ahhh sorry i was very unclear in what i said

the girl i hooked up with was not our neighbor, but one of her roommates

the neighbor girl i am just friends with

i never f'ed the girl but we just kinda made out and did some over the pants junk

i found out she had a boyfriend the next morning from my neighbor

haven't really talked to the girl since then, but from what my friend told me shes done a complete 180 on how she feels about me

once again, sorry for the unclear message i wrote it quick
 
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aaah.. i see

okay... she is probably trying to rationalize what she's done...

by 180 i take it that she has changed her mind about how she feels about you negatively...

well... she undoubtably would LIKE to believe that she isn't attracted to you. but apparently she is... she'll try to tell herself and others that she barely remembers what you look like etc etc.. it's because she has a boyfriend and for the past week she's been dealing with that.. (if she's human)...

the only reason i think you have a shot is probably because her boyfriend is a chump, and their relationship might not be going great FOR HER. hence the skating double date...

gotta do what ya gotta do son!

i'm glad she didn't **** you, cause that would have been more drama...

continue with the same attitude you had when you were dealing with her last, be consistent... i mean, guage the situation, if shes acting wierd, don't straight up ignore her etc etc.. if she acts prudish, let her know that you're not going to put up with that... i mean, run your game on her, it worked once, it can work again...

good luck,
 
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great advice, thanks for your help bro

she will most likely act pushy and pretend like im not there, which is definetly the impression im getting, but your right i shouldn't completely ignore her, thanks again man ill let ya know how it turns out
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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