Help pushing farther

[Kidd]

I have realized that I have good communication skills, good for opening and building attraction.. But I realized my problem is that I dont know how to close in and isolate. Here is the story:

I had a girl in my car, an old friend, and we were hanging out. From the first minute I could sense heavy IOI, like heavy touching and intense eye contact. I could tell just from the look in her eyes she was down for it. My problem came with closing. I had the chick ready to go right next to me, yet I pvssied out and froze up. I thought about just grabbing her hand and leading her towards me and then kissing her... but then I fvcked up by not doing anything. After a while the chick got tired and went home. I was left with blue balls.

I dont know how to close. I start flippen out about "what if the chick isn't interested???" and etc. Do you guys have any advice about closing in general or about something I could have done differently? I am on my way in learning, and need all constructive input I can get.

 

[john paul]

Just gotta do it is the bottem line.

You had the thought of kissing her in your head but you didnt follow threw.

Gotta take action when the oppertunity is right because your the man. The first couple times may be akward but after a while it will become a peice of cake and you will enjoy doing it.

 

[Kidd]

yeah man... it was my lack of balls that led me to this.i should have manned up and done something to make a move. Oh well, lesson learned. Next time will be different.