"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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lil_azn

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as u can see i'm new to this (lets get to tha poinT) if u had a bad past like u had a spas or stuff or was a nerd had not a good past with tha gurls do u think u culd change hat way they fink bout u ?? anudda qestion if ya a loner with no friends can u still get sum gurls ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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well, it helps to know how to speak / write correctly, but yes of course you can. I was a nerd when i was young. I stayed indoors all the time doing homework and studying / playing video games. ****, i didn't even have a past with girls until the 10th grade because i was a HUGE AFC (don't wanna go into detail because it really is embarassing. Just try and reinvent yourself, serach previous threads to help yourself out with a new image, how to carry out a conversation, spell check... haha
 

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If you were a nerd then why do you speak like youre a dumbass? Step one, stop trying to speak like a "thug."
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
If you were a nerd then why do you speak like youre a dumbass? Step one, stop trying to speak like a "thug."
dawg, chill out! go easy on him. anyways, i say it depends on how big of a nerd/loner u were. If you were extremely nerdy directly to them (any particular girls), you're gonna have some problems. I suggest moving if at all possible, at least when you graduate. Then you get to start fresh
 

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If you're not gonna make an effort to type well get off the internet.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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