"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Help plz =P

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Hey everyone! I was wondering if anyone could help me think of a smooth approach. This is the situation:

I am stupid.
Ok, so during lunch time my friends and I go to eat and there was a long line to order. I noticed it was really busy and almost everyone was rude to this really cute cashier. So when it was my turn to come up, I came to the register with a big smile and said Hello Z [her name] and she smiled back. I said please and thank yous to be nice and stand out from those rude people. During my whole eating I kept catching her eye me, so I was just trying to play it cool [eh bad mistake lol] So anyways, it was time to go and this is when I knew she was interested. I was leaving and looked around for her and I find her already smiliing at me, even as I turned back I just waved bye and the person who she was ringing up was like, "uhh..wtf?" lol. Anyways...I just wanted to cut the crap and admit that I was stupid for not going in, even though it would be rude to ask for her number infront of all the customers, I think I should have =/......

So I ask you people to help me think of an approach next time I see her =] THank yoU!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Say "Hi"

Followed boy "How are you?"

You should have said that instead of "please" and "thank you".

If you want to "stand out" like you said you should have asked her things like:

"How has your day been?"

"What are you up to?"

"What food do you recommend?"

“What you doing tonight?”

From there you should have carried on a short convo with her. Not just said "please and thank you"

Its ok newbie there is always tomorrow.

P.S. Don't put smiley faces on the title of your post and don't call your self stupid. If you consider your self stupid nobody else you meet can possibly think more of you.
 
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thank you for your advice =]

Gah your right. I was saying I was really stupid in this situation that I should have done something more. =/ but yea I guess your right!
 
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ok kid, I'm going to help you out because you are young and I feel sorry for you.

Next time you order a meal (make sure she is at the cash register) order a something small and then when she says "Would you like anything else? You say, "yes, I would like your phone number, but don't charge me for it", then roll your eyes.

She'll give you her number for just being so cute and witty!!!!
 
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Omg...Last Man Standing...Thank you so much! I'll update you on hwo it went! I'm expecting it to go really well tho! Wow..haha I can`t get over how good that was! Thank you soo much!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'd highly recommend you check out our DJ Bible, which will give you great advice on how to approach and handle many situations, include tons of variations of the one you just described. The tips in The Archive section is also of great value.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb
 
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