So I've seen this really hot girl in the hallways at school. She's a freshman and I'm a sophomore and that's pretty much all I know about her. I'd really like to get to know her better, but I don't have any classes with her, and the only time I see her at all is in the hallways between classes, which isn't really a good place/time to strike up a coversation. The only "connection" I have to her at all is that I have a couple "aquintances" who are kind of friends with her. (I said aquaintances because we're not really friends in the sense that we don't really talk on a regular basis exept for the ocasional "hey what's up" when I see them) I was just wondering if you guys had any ideas on a way to get to talking to this girl and get to know her better. I know it'll be hard to give advice due to your limited knowledge of the situation, but I figured I'd post this anyway to see if anyone could help out.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
help please...
- Thread starter matt34
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I feel you man I have a similar thread down a little further. It's called i can tlak to any girl except her. Needless to say man I know im definaly gonna just start talking to her ive been reading alot of stuff here at Don Juan for tips. Ive definaly learned all I gotta do is not feel like such a ***** and suck it up. I mean no ones gonna make fun of you and if they do be like you go do it. Then they'll definaly shut up. I mean I used to think She would reject me n crap. but honestly if she rejects you she's not gonna brag about it to her friends they'll just be like why woudl you do that and stuff like that. I know definaly next time I see her i'm picking my balls up and talking with her. you should try it.
Just start hanging out with her friend more. I'm good friends with this chicks Best friends so they give me credit and would let me chill with them when I want. Man Remember live every day like its your last just start talking to her itsn ot like anyones gonna be like what oh what a loser he's talking to so and so. My friends would be like give me some tips. You gotta be confident going in then make the move. She's younger then you so it would be a dumb move for her to reject you so just take your chance.
yea dude, i've had my eye on this one chick for about a year now. this year i started seeeing her bf at parties (i'm friends with him) and thats how i met her...now that they broke up i'm hanging with her this upcoming weekend. 
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.