"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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i guess the tides have turned because although im in good shape, i want to gain some more muscles and i do not know much about that.

well my question is how do you increase the size of your muscles on your chest, i do press ups well just started doing them regularly i do 40 every other day, should i split this up in to doing less over a few reps like 30 press ups 2 or 3 times

and more importantly are press ups good at devloping your chest muscles or do i need to do weights. I only have 5kg dumbells, i cant really get to a gym so easily but if i need to do weights i will buy a proper set, of like 40kg or what ever, but if i just do press ups will this do the trick.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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catch

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hey check,

well press ups are good, but if you do to many your muscle will get to used to it and they wont build, plus they tend to work more of your tricep...

if you buy your own multy gym or just go to a reall one, then you should work your chest only once or twice a week,

bench press, start of by doing 2,3 sets of say 10 12, and the the weight should be just on your strength boundry..

butterflys, lie back on a bench with a dumbell in each hand streched out, and raise them up above your chest at arms length

now, let me say body building an stuff is a lond proccess, dont give up when you see no results strait away, it takes time and effort and you must stick to it..

ask a member of some gym, ya know, make a convo an ask
you can meet loads of friends at a gym so you shoul really go to a reall one

dont give it up.. catch
 

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40kg dumbells? you won't be able to lift them straight away. You have to build it up, small first, then increase the weight as you get used to it. There's no over-night solution.

Edit: join a gym.
 
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