Hello, can someone out there please give me some advice?
Im 17 and from australia, im in my final yr of high school and im havnig some issues with a girl at school. Ive only really gotten to know her well this year, but we've become pretty good friends and lately ive started to pick up that maybe we could be more, through vibes and stuff. I think she might like me and a few of my friends, male & female have commented on this. So wheres the problem u may ask, well (here comes the twist!) one of my best friends (male) likes her. Well he hasnt said anything but its pretty obvious and widely accepted in my group of friends that he does. She knows this too but just wants to be friends and has actually said so, but not to him, they went to the formal (prom as u guys call it) together but this was made very clear that it was just as friends and it was organised by others, neither one asked the other to go. So clearly nothing is gonna happen between them and shes not the only girl he likes anyway. But i still feel bad about it and im confused as to my feelings for her. Sometimes i like her and sometimes i just wanna be friends, i know that sounds like a cop-out but its true! Shes a really nice girl and i dont wanna mess her around. Are you confused now? Not nearly as much as i am, lol. Any help would be greatly appreciated!
Im 17 and from australia, im in my final yr of high school and im havnig some issues with a girl at school. Ive only really gotten to know her well this year, but we've become pretty good friends and lately ive started to pick up that maybe we could be more, through vibes and stuff. I think she might like me and a few of my friends, male & female have commented on this. So wheres the problem u may ask, well (here comes the twist!) one of my best friends (male) likes her. Well he hasnt said anything but its pretty obvious and widely accepted in my group of friends that he does. She knows this too but just wants to be friends and has actually said so, but not to him, they went to the formal (prom as u guys call it) together but this was made very clear that it was just as friends and it was organised by others, neither one asked the other to go. So clearly nothing is gonna happen between them and shes not the only girl he likes anyway. But i still feel bad about it and im confused as to my feelings for her. Sometimes i like her and sometimes i just wanna be friends, i know that sounds like a cop-out but its true! Shes a really nice girl and i dont wanna mess her around. Are you confused now? Not nearly as much as i am, lol. Any help would be greatly appreciated!