help please

[SHAUNTAIT]

I am a 19 year old guy who recently joined college. I like this girl from my class at college. In fact my infatuation of her was so great that I told her of my feelings just after a week of knowing her(really a dumb thing to do!!!!). She was cool about it but pushed me into the friend zone. I was disappointed but could do nothing about it. A week later when we were the only ones present in class I did something really stupid(again). We had two free lectures and I STALKED her around the campus. Yes I STALKED her.I sat with her in the library for an hour and I know she was bugged. Since then I haven't spoken to her. She replies to my mesages. PLease help me. I feel gutted whenever I see her. SHe has become my kryptonite. I feel very happy when she isn't around. SHe is killing me. I am deeply in love with her. I don't want to lose her.
please reply .
thanks,
the compulsive stalker

 

[Conquer]

I don't even know where to start.
1st- Get some friends, this will leave you with less time to stalk people.
2nd- Ask yourself why do I like her? and Do I really like her?
3rd- Start talking to other women.
4th- Calm down and see a psychologist if you think you have an real stalking problem.

 

[She_feelin_Me]

^^Man you cant be in love with her...there's no such thing when she hasnt even chose you yet, went out, ****ed her, know her goals and intentions in life so stop with the dumb ****...Value yourself as a man and man up!

You in college you say? Why dont you look else where and charge that girl or rather i say you have been charged...Never stalk a female, and never spill your feelings to her because all of this she probably thinks you some kind of freak or lame.

Just move on ASAP!!

 

[SHAUNTAIT]

Thanks For The Help Guys!!

 

[Jean Valjean]

Your chances here with this girl are ruined. Tought out your feelings and stay away from her or the campus police will be visiting you shortly. See a campus therapist if you need help eith this.

In the mean time find a new girl and don't stalk them under any circumstances. Just be cool.

 

[donjuanapprentice01]

Oneitis is a nasty, nasty disease mate... I feel your pain, I was there (minus the stalking though)... I did the same **** you did... spilled my feelings out to this one girl, completely ****ed me over and then I went ahead and stayed "friends" with her.... doubly ****ed me over... didn't end well for me at all... went into depression for almost two years..

Like the other posters said, get your mind on other things and other girls.... or this oneitis is going to ruin you.