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wutang23

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So last week this girl, I'm interested in asked me to go with her to this sadies dance I said yes took her to diner the whole nine yards. We danced etc... her mom made her come home afterwards so I didn't push her to goto the after party , but I was clearly getting vibes that she was into me (really attentive always playing with her hair around me etc..) The next day she texts me I had a really good time blah blah thanks for being my date whatever. My question is what should i do to continue my relationship with her and get some? At my school there is a huge party culture catered on hook ups not dating. Should i take her to a party this weekend drink with her and hook up with her there, Or should i try to ask her on a actual date?
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What exactly are you meaning by hook up at this party? and a party can be seen as a fun cheap date. Why not just ask her if she wants to go to the party with you? I wouldn't look too deep into it and expect much more then having a fun time. Don't go into it expecting to get laid right there. Don't rush anything
 
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A party can be a date just a different kind of date (remember that a party on a whole IS a social gathering, bringing her to it does mean that you two will NOT be one on one but instead in the middle of a massive free for all on all). Is she the party type? Then the party is the way for you. If she's not a big partier then well, surely you can figure out the equation.

DON'T DRINK AND DRIVE!!!

-WaRpEd
 

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