"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wutang23

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So last week this girl, I'm interested in asked me to go with her to this sadies dance I said yes took her to diner the whole nine yards. We danced etc... her mom made her come home afterwards so I didn't push her to goto the after party , but I was clearly getting vibes that she was into me (really attentive always playing with her hair around me etc..) The next day she texts me I had a really good time blah blah thanks for being my date whatever. My question is what should i do to continue my relationship with her and get some? At my school there is a huge party culture catered on hook ups not dating. Should i take her to a party this weekend drink with her and hook up with her there, Or should i try to ask her on a actual date?
Help would be appreciated thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What exactly are you meaning by hook up at this party? and a party can be seen as a fun cheap date. Why not just ask her if she wants to go to the party with you? I wouldn't look too deep into it and expect much more then having a fun time. Don't go into it expecting to get laid right there. Don't rush anything
 
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A party can be a date just a different kind of date (remember that a party on a whole IS a social gathering, bringing her to it does mean that you two will NOT be one on one but instead in the middle of a massive free for all on all). Is she the party type? Then the party is the way for you. If she's not a big partier then well, surely you can figure out the equation.

DON'T DRINK AND DRIVE!!!

-WaRpEd
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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