"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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passo

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I've been seeing this girl for 3years on and off it's been a UP AND DOWN although we haven't even started a relationship,i'm as equal her boyfriend but in reality i'm not.
It's come to a point now that when i've started seeing someone else, she comes back around telling me she wants a relationship without commitment.
At some point i want to go there but in the other hand if it's going to be the same thing again i'd rather not go.
What am I TO DO??:confused:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by passo
It's come to a point now that when i've started seeing someone else, she comes back around telling me she wants a relationship without commitment.
commitment???? are you asking her to merry you or something. are you trying to plan your future???? eather take it as is or move on. You see, what she wants is a guy to be there untill a better one comes along, so don't put your life on hold for her. In fact, don't even bother being faitfull. make her your f/buddy
 
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