"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Help On Getting Ear Pierced/Earing

Black Circle

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Waz up guys, I think i'm gonna get my ear pierced, I think it would work. I wore a magnetic one for a day and my friend said "can't you picture him sucking a di,k."LMAO.

Anyway, i'm kinda lost on the process of getting your ear pierced, I want to get it done by a doctor because i'm safe like that. Now what do you do?, set up an appointment and they use the earing u want when they pierce it? I'll figure out when I call, but I just wanted to know anyones experences with this.

Thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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doctoroxygen

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Doctors don't do piercings...Where did you hear that?

Go to a tattoo/piercing studio. It's fun. Don't let anyone with a piercing gun anywhere near your ears. Insist upon the needle.
 

BBX

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my sister is 9 and she got her ears pierced at the doctors, i'm 16 so I go to the same one as her. So I think they do piercings at the doctor.
 

oakraiderz2

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Umm...im pretty sure doctors dont pierce ears. Either way, doctors arent gonna do a safer job than a piercing place; it just gives you a false sense of security. I dont understand why people relate being gay to having your ear pierced?? If it only the right then...ok...no dice. Soon im gonna pierce my lip...ima badass i know.
 

eminence

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where have you guys been? doctors have always pierced ears. And get in with the trend, no one cares about that left ear right ear **** anymore...just get em both done so you don't look like an idiot, at least your face will look more symmetrical.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Skilla_Staz

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I pierced my own ears. The ear isn't really a problem to pierce on your own, just clean the earring, use a stud and jam it through. I've got both of my ears pierced. Looks better than when I had just my left.

Now, the TONGUE, thats dangerous.
 

psychocandy

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Dude just get it done if you want it. And hell if you don't like it you can always take it out...

Check out http://wiki.bmezine.com if you want help with the style you want/potential risks etc.

And don't go to a doctor to get it done, they'll likely not know what the feck they're doing. Do you ever see doctors with piercings? For the most part, no. It's like asking a vigin for advice on how to get laid.

Professional piercers know their shyt. Whatever you want, go for it. Left ear, right ear, both ears; who cares what anyone else thinks? Do it for YOU.

PsychoK
 

Rata Blanca

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dont forget to get some make up too!!! :crackup:

just kidding.


good luck on your piercing just take care of your body
 
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