"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Help! - New job where i stand all day

Kenny Powers

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Just started a new job where I'm pretty much on my feet for like 5 hours - often standing around - plus the 20 minute walk to get there. My feet, legs and back have been really bugging me and making an already dull job even worse. I workout out my legs a lot (squats, deadlifts and lunges :rockon: ) but i dont think strength is going to help.

Does anyone have any advice on how i can improve this situation? Im thinking some endurance/flexibility exercises might help. Also some new shoes and orthotics.

Im also worried that this will negatively impact my ability to workout since Ill be too tired after a long day at work to hit the gym or wont have as intense of a workout. Has anyone dealt with a similar problem in which work made them too tired to go to the gym?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Krueg

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I stand on my feet 8hrs a day, except when on break. But I dont walk 20 minutes to work. I also weight train though it doesnt bother me. Yes, my legs are sore somedays but its not a big deal. Because of my work schedule I usually have to train in the morning before I go to work..
 

incognito42

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Better cardiovascular health would help in my unqualified opinion. I lift a lot, and I HATE doing cardio, but when I do get into it after 1-2 months I can feel a lot more endurance and energy in all my physical activity theogony the day. Doing squats and good leg/core workouts helps a lot as well
 
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