"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Help needed with appearance

Sporty1

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I am 16 and 6'1. I have a very trim body, broad shoulders and wear very trendy glasses. I am slightly dark. All my female friends tell me that i am witty and humourous and nice. I need some dressing tips please.
There is a very cute girl in my class. We know each other a little. She has shown interest in me. I talk to her now and then. She tries to be with me whenever we are doing something.how should i make a move?i really like her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mastersF

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ask her out if u like her... as for dressing advice, i think it's best that u ask ur female friends for advice. ask them to go shopping with u. they'll be more than willing to help u with a wardrobe revamp
 

crust45833

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Why do people still come in here and ask questions that can be so easily answered by the link at the top of the page??
RTFB!
 
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