Help needed!! Into this girl but don't know what's going on

[Magpies11]

Help!! Girl im into...Do I ignore her and wait till she gets back from holidays and she contacts me? Or do I contact her and see how her holiday is?
We speak very regularly mostly texts, email. We have hooked up multiple times when we are out. Fooled around once after a night out. also spent the night together but no sex as I didn't want her to think that's the only thing I'm in for. The times we have hooked up alcohol been involved. seems as she is interested as she initiates conversations so it's not just me that tries.
Ended up catching up with her the other week when she was out with her friends as shes leaving for overseas for 1 month. At end of the night,waiting for lift home she had came up gave me kiss and hug and said she will see me when she gets back. I got a text from her later that night saying that she hopes I got home safe. I replied to her, asked of she got home safe too... No reply. The next day I sent her a text saying that I hope she has a nice holiday.No reply again. She msg wishing me a happy bday. I replied thanks and have a safe flight. She didn't reply. Also I have been told that she can be a bit of a flirt too
She will be back in three weeks I also want to tell her that I am into her.She just keeps going through my head, can't stop thinking bout her

 

[Greasy Pig]

Women discuss feelings, men act.
Only today I was forced to tell I girl I liked hanging out with her (really wished I could've said I like hanging out OF her lol) but that was in response to a direct question.
I wouldn't volunteer that information to a girl unsolicited. It comes across as needy and reeks of beta-dom.

I think you're trying too hard. Just let her go and don't try to contact her again while she's away.
Hopefully she'll contact you either while she's away and/or when she gets back.

Either way, keep things light and playful.

If she doesn't contact you when she gets back, again, leave it a few days. Let her settle back into her normal routine and then hit her up to hang out.

Keep cool, don't go all lovey dovey on her. She'll sense your desperation and run a mile.

 

[InnerHappiness]

99% of posts about dealing with a chick can be solved by not having ONE chick.

You can get all the advice on this chick, you get thrown a curveball and come back asking what you did wrong.

Go out there and get more options, isn't this the discipline of SS? Once you grasp that concept you will be well better off, so will we.

 

[flashpoint]

Fooled around once after a night out. also spent the night together but no sex as I didn't want her to think that's the only thing I'm in for.

ya. right. i am sure she got that message lol.