"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hey guys m 5'7 n m damn too skinny i want to change it.I can't go to gym becoz i don't have time I play football(soccer) almost everyday for 3 to 4 hrs. as I cant go to gym I have got my self dumbbell of 7 1/2 kg each.so can u tell wat should I do in order to get pumped up.I want my full body workout.plzz guide me
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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7.5kg won't even last you 1 workout session. I suggest that you try and join a gym or buy a rack, barbell and about 100kg worth of plates to start with. That is all you need.

If that isn't an option, I recommend to do bodyweight stuff: Chin ups, push ups, one legged squats. Again, that will only get you so far, you need to weight train if you want to make visible progress.
 

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If you're playing football 3-4 hours a day, don't expect huge gains - its too much cardio.

Look at runners bodies if you don't believe me.
 

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[S]alvatore said:
7.5kg won't even last you 1 workout session. I suggest that you try and join a gym or buy a rack, barbell and about 100kg worth of plates to start with. That is all you need.

If that isn't an option, I recommend to do bodyweight stuff: Chin ups, push ups, one legged squats. Again, that will only get you so far, you need to weight train if you want to make visible progress.
What he said. The best way to start in my opinion, is to just do body weight workouts.

I'd start off with push ups. There are soooo many push up variations it's insane. Depending on the width of your hands and how high or low they are compared to your shoulders, you can work a lot of different areas of your upper body and core. Put your hands far below your shoulders and really tight to your body, and you've got yourself a great tricep workout. Put em high and far apart and you'll really be working your upper deltoids and abs. Push ups also are great for your back, too. They really are a great exercise. The only thing they won't help is your biceps. And that's where pull ups come into play.

There's even a website with a program to work up to being able to do 100 consecutive push ups - - http://hundredpushups.com/index.html#sthash.N6UlfEYo.dpbs


I do disagree that you won't have any visible progress unless you hit the weights. You will make some small gains and tone up as they're more of a thing that will build muscle endurance, but you'll still get stronger.

Hope this helps. And yeah 7.5 kg dumbbells won't get you anywhere.
 

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If your body is skinny and you don't have a time to gym then you brought some specific gym equipment at home and make 15 round and 3 sets of each game every day you will feel in few days that your skin is going to be tight as you want.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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