"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My girl and her roommate have a gay friend who's visiting and staying over their place for a few days. They're not 100% sure he's gay but they think so...anyway my girl mentioned he wants to sleep in her bed for a night!! what do i do?!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Say no, dumbass...
 

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Just state your point of view. You don't want to subvert your feelings just to put on a front. Plus there is a way to state it that will not come across as insecure. If you state it rationally and confidently with good reasoning you won't come across as an insecure person.
 

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Remulak said:
isn't that just gonna make me look insecure



I'd go with a long blank stare followed by "I don't think so."... or maybe "do i look retarded? do i have a 23rd chromosome i'm unaware of?"

From what i hear like 4% of people are gay. It seems like women like to label people gay a lot when they're not. My gf does this all the time and with the number of people she says "he's probably gay" about like half the people in the world are gay.

There's absolutely no way my gf would ever be okay with me sharing a bed with some woman so there's no way she's allowed to share a bed with a dude. The obvious solution here is that at best the two girls share a bed and the dude takes one of theirs.

Btw if your gf makes out with some dude are you not going to say or do anything because you might look insecure? "Remulak, i didn't have sex with him! you're so insecure!"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl:"My friend is coming to sleep with me etc,its ok he's gay"
You:"Cool,i always wanted to hear your point of view on this subject,now i can tell (another girls name) that she can spend the night at my place,don't worry shes definitely a dyke,thanks babe."<- all this sarcastically of course.
Depending on her reaction which will be either a)aknowledge your point and don't sleep with the guy , b)go ballistic.In case of b you next her and really call another girl.
 

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I'd reply with something like - "How do you expect all 3 of us to fit in one bed?"

Or

"Ok, sure no problem you can sleep with the gay guy and I'll sleep with your roomate then..."
 

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Bat said:
dude, how old is your gf?
21, like me....when she brought it up a couple days ago i thought to myself "shyt test!" so I acted like I didn't give a shyt but now that the time for action is creeping up I'll state my opinion on it cool and calmly. I forgot to mention that she's not my official gf but we've been dating for 2 months and we're pretty serious, we hang out everyday.
 

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Remulak said:
My girl and her roommate have a gay friend who's visiting and staying over their place for a few days. They're not 100% sure he's gay but they think so...anyway my girl mentioned he wants to sleep in her bed for a night!! what do i do?!

Look gay or not he should not be sleeping with ya girl...not like any of my girlfriends sleep in the same bed...i mean wtf?.

-Malachi

BTW... maybe he's a pretend gay so he can get girls close to him and then whip out his meet and 2 veg and whip em with it?....LOL
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Remulak said:
I forgot to mention that she's not my official gf but we've been dating for 2 months and we're pretty serious, we hang out everyday.
She can do whatever she wants to do.
 
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