"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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I'm 20 years old, and I just hit on an hb9 on Monday. I'm and virgin and I never been with a girl. But using the skills from deangelo and this forum, I somehow scored on this chick. She give me her college emal and her cell #. We then had a very short talk, I already set up a coffee date on saturday.
I'm a very poor conversationalist. Even with my friends, we always have gap holes between our conversation so I wouldn't surprise how I'll end up this weekend with the chick. I need help how to survive my first date. You guys have no idea how quiet men have to put through, but I'm trying best. Can anyone give me some topic ideas, and how to last 30 mins?

Mahalo
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Phyzzle

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You from Hawaii?

Anyways, there are the two old standby's "where are u from and what's your major?" Ponder these subjects. Think of things to say to keep her talking about HER dreams and HER ambitions.

Even if there is a pause in the conversation, I say "Embrace the silence. I've never had an uncomforatable pause." And laugh.
 

Holland

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Just focus on doing your best and get the most out of the experience.

Think in advance what to talk about. So when a silence accurs, you have a lot of stuff to fall back on and get into instantly. Don't worry about whether or not she's gonna go home with you or not. I like to think in the 'bridges' (e-book DYD) in how far I come with girls.
The Bridges are: approach, digits, date request, date itself, holding hands, kissing, make out, alone with her in private, clothes of, sex.
You already made it through three and very likely four of those! Not too bad, now make sure you make fun of her and enjoy a good time with her on the date, then figure out how to transition into the next bridge. Good luck.
 

Steg

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Look up nouning (worked for me) try having chat over IRC or something if nothing else lol. You just look for the nouns in a sentence and ask something about it.

Uhh look at the birght side (other than yhe obvious :D) you'r not 30!
 
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