"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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I'm 20 years old, and I just hit on an hb9 on Monday. I'm and virgin and I never been with a girl. But using the skills from deangelo and this forum, I somehow scored on this chick. She give me her college emal and her cell #. We then had a very short talk, I already set up a coffee date on saturday.
I'm a very poor conversationalist. Even with my friends, we always have gap holes between our conversation so I wouldn't surprise how I'll end up this weekend with the chick. I need help how to survive my first date. You guys have no idea how quiet men have to put through, but I'm trying best. Can anyone give me some topic ideas, and how to last 30 mins?

Mahalo
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Phyzzle

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You from Hawaii?

Anyways, there are the two old standby's "where are u from and what's your major?" Ponder these subjects. Think of things to say to keep her talking about HER dreams and HER ambitions.

Even if there is a pause in the conversation, I say "Embrace the silence. I've never had an uncomforatable pause." And laugh.
 

Holland

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Just focus on doing your best and get the most out of the experience.

Think in advance what to talk about. So when a silence accurs, you have a lot of stuff to fall back on and get into instantly. Don't worry about whether or not she's gonna go home with you or not. I like to think in the 'bridges' (e-book DYD) in how far I come with girls.
The Bridges are: approach, digits, date request, date itself, holding hands, kissing, make out, alone with her in private, clothes of, sex.
You already made it through three and very likely four of those! Not too bad, now make sure you make fun of her and enjoy a good time with her on the date, then figure out how to transition into the next bridge. Good luck.
 

Steg

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Look up nouning (worked for me) try having chat over IRC or something if nothing else lol. You just look for the nouns in a sentence and ask something about it.

Uhh look at the birght side (other than yhe obvious :D) you'r not 30!
 
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