Hey guys I would really like to hear some opinions about what I should do here.
A good friend and I made the mistake of telling both of our wives some juicy gossip revealed to us by another good buddy of ours about 6 months ago.
Basically our buddy was bragging about some of his sexual conquests to us with a really hot girl we all know. Turns out this situation has evolved into some love triangles (maybe even quadrangles). Several of the people involved are divorcees, friends, and even siblings!
A pretty fvcked up situation all around. Over the past six months the friend and I who knew about this secret have learned that there are several other people around town who knew about these happenings with our buddy as well. So the secret was out but still hadn't come to the surface.
Anyhow my wife did something really stupid last weekend while talking with one of her girlfriends. She let the cat out of the bag and her girlfriend (who is the basically the town gossip) went and told another busy body chick and the two of them have spread the rumour. Who knows how far it's gone.
So I get a text from my guilty buddy last week saying "You didn't tell anybody about that stuff I told you did you?" I responded with "What stuff?" and at the time I had no clue what my wife had done. He responded with "good".
Over the past week I found out that my wife spilled the beans. We had a big fight about it. I was super pissed at her and I'm sure she feels pretty stupid but she hasn't exactly been sorry either. She figures it's my friends fault for doing something so stupid. I'm not very happy with her.
Anyhow I get another text just a few moments ago from my buddy. "We all need to get together for a drink so I can explain some things to you. Why you guys would say stuff I told you in confidence isn't cool and it goes way deeper than what I told you."
So I'm heading to an xmas party soon and will probably see this guy there and things could get ugly.
I'm not a guy who enjoys drama. This is going to be an awkward situation. I should never have said anything to my wife about this but wasn't expecting her to be so loose lipped. I've definitely learned my lesson there. There will probably be another big blow out with my wife and I'm not sure how to handle that.
Also what the heck can I say to this guy tonight? I feel like sh!t!!!
A good friend and I made the mistake of telling both of our wives some juicy gossip revealed to us by another good buddy of ours about 6 months ago.
Basically our buddy was bragging about some of his sexual conquests to us with a really hot girl we all know. Turns out this situation has evolved into some love triangles (maybe even quadrangles). Several of the people involved are divorcees, friends, and even siblings!
A pretty fvcked up situation all around. Over the past six months the friend and I who knew about this secret have learned that there are several other people around town who knew about these happenings with our buddy as well. So the secret was out but still hadn't come to the surface.
Anyhow my wife did something really stupid last weekend while talking with one of her girlfriends. She let the cat out of the bag and her girlfriend (who is the basically the town gossip) went and told another busy body chick and the two of them have spread the rumour. Who knows how far it's gone.
So I get a text from my guilty buddy last week saying "You didn't tell anybody about that stuff I told you did you?" I responded with "What stuff?" and at the time I had no clue what my wife had done. He responded with "good".
Over the past week I found out that my wife spilled the beans. We had a big fight about it. I was super pissed at her and I'm sure she feels pretty stupid but she hasn't exactly been sorry either. She figures it's my friends fault for doing something so stupid. I'm not very happy with her.
Anyhow I get another text just a few moments ago from my buddy. "We all need to get together for a drink so I can explain some things to you. Why you guys would say stuff I told you in confidence isn't cool and it goes way deeper than what I told you."
So I'm heading to an xmas party soon and will probably see this guy there and things could get ugly.
I'm not a guy who enjoys drama. This is going to be an awkward situation. I should never have said anything to my wife about this but wasn't expecting her to be so loose lipped. I've definitely learned my lesson there. There will probably be another big blow out with my wife and I'm not sure how to handle that.
Also what the heck can I say to this guy tonight? I feel like sh!t!!!