"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Okay there is this girl to make a long story shory I finally got to talk with her it's beena while but my guts tell me that she is attracted to me so finally I was able to talk to her tell me what you guys think oh by the way this are email(scenario she got into an accident with her friend i was driving by i saw the incident)

me: what happened to you guys(lol) you guys okay
her:eek:h my friend crash into me we are fine thanks mazda(of course mazda is not my name)
me:you know what you should sue her every penny that she got I know a good lawyer(of course by this time it is all or fun)
her:thats okay mazda I can represent my self she is going down thanks mazda
me:eek:kay well let me know if you need a witness I can testify against her alright.
her:don't think you'll get a payout on this mazda
by the way what is your new schedule?(we work at the same place and we were getting new schedules)
me:what not even a penny? how bout lunch? dang girl you are cheap and why do you want to know my schedule you going to stalk me? what's your new schedule
her:Oh yeh Mazda IM STRANGELY ACTTRACTIVE TO YOU I WANT TO BE WITH YOU!!! I got thursday off and no you don't stalk me okay
me:Well if I was you I want to be with me too and by the way I was already stalking you(jk)
and after that she didn't respond I think I scared her well any opinion on this situation thanks fellas
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Real PUAs/DJs wouldn't be bothered to give you advice on a trivial issue such as this, they'd just say 'Don't sweat it and go game more chicks'.
The only advice you're going to get on this situation is from KJs who have no idea what they're talking about and just want to validate themselves and their so called DJ skills by handing out lots of useless advice.
 

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Originally posted by wolfie
Real PUAs/DJs wouldn't be bothered to give you advice on a trivial issue such as this, they'd just say 'Don't sweat it and go game more chicks'.
The only advice you're going to get on this situation is from KJs who have no idea what they're talking about and just want to validate themselves and their so called DJ skills by handing out lots of useless advice.
Oh snap, that's some funny ****, what does KJ stand for?
 

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Two routes you could have gone:

Did she really say "ACTTRACTIVE?" I would misinterpreted it and said "ACTTRACTIVE, I have feeling too. I don't think I can be around someone who acts they like someone"

When you brought up the stalking, that was good but you need to keep it up (and turn it up). Instead, you backed down by kidding you were the one that was stalking. Females have this detection system when you are genuine or not. She felt you wern't genuine in that moment. Instead, I would have said to her response "No need to worry about me, you're the one I am worried about." Or even bring up the ACTTRACTIVE comment here.
 

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Originally posted by wolfie
Real PUAs/DJs wouldn't be bothered to give you advice on a trivial issue such as this, they'd just say 'Don't sweat it and go game more chicks'.
The only advice you're going to get on this situation is from KJs who have no idea what they're talking about and just want to validate themselves and their so called DJ skills by handing out lots of useless advice.
I used to be WORST person when it came to female interactions. If it weren't for giving people, I would still be stuck in that mode. I can understand the frustration and confusion in this situation and I would be happy to help shed light on a confusing issue for someone.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by mazda
......and after that she didn't respond I think I scared her well any opinion on this situation thanks fellas
Her b/f /parents came into her room!
 

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Your absolutely right stalluproar I should of step it up a notch I don't know what happened I just got wussy out I guess we men are so weak when it come to this kind of ****, maybe I said that because I was afraid that she really likes me and subconsciously I rejected her but anyways how should I respond to this or to her email wise or in person any advise would be appreciated thanks
 

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ACTTRACTIVE what does that mean?
 
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Don't initiate contact again - she is the one who left you "hanging" without a returned response!!! Let her respond first!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah, our instinct is to say wuss out things like that towards the end. You just need to recognize wussy thoughts and mentally stop it. I would think of all the wussy comments you made, and think of what would be a better, non wussy way.

A good way to redeem your comment is if she writes to you, act or demonstrate you are busy then say something about you are a week behind schedule in stalking her, but she is right on time. Then say if your lucky, I might fill you in my schedule. This is just an idea, I would word this in your own way.

The proper spelling is ATTRACTIVE. If she says ACTTRACTIVE, take the act part and tell her I don't know if we can continue this if you are just ACTtractive to me instead of ATTRACTED to me.
 

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dang thanks a lot fellas very very helpful specially u roar thanks a bunch I'll definitely put that to mind when I'm acting wussy I'll give my self a slap in the face
 

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SHE ACTUALLY SAYS ATTRACTIVE DON'T KNOW IF IT MEANS ANYTHING

Originally posted by stalluproar
Yeah, our instinct is to say wuss out things like that towards the end. You just need to recognize wussy thoughts and mentally stop it. I would think of all the wussy comments you made, and think of what would be a better, non wussy way.

A good way to redeem your comment is if she writes to you, act or demonstrate you are busy then say something about you are a week behind schedule in stalking her, but she is right on time. Then say if your lucky, I might fill you in my schedule. This is just an idea, I would word this in your own way.

The proper spelling is ATTRACTIVE. If she says ACTTRACTIVE, take the act part and tell her I don't know if we can continue this if you are just ACTtractive to me instead of ATTRACTED to me.
 
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