"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Help! My girl is on the RAG!

Mafia80

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Hey Guys

My girl is on the rag right now and she has been seriously grumpy lately. I must say that I really like her and its not all about the sex or anything. Last night we went out to dinner and she got pissed accusing me of looking at other girls. Now she wont even ****ing talk to me.

What the hell should I do? I dont mean to sound desparate or anything but I really dig this chick. Should I wait til her period ends to call her? I know she likes me a lot despite what happened. How should I go about this??? Thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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diablo

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You're 23 and have never had to go through "that time of the month" with a girl yet?

Give her a few days, she'll call back and apologize.
 

Mafia80

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Of course I have but not like this, this girl is nuts on her period. So you would recommend not calling her, waiting for her to call me?
 

jonny football hero

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I'd change that title. In england "on the rag" means she's a prostitute.
 

MacDiddy

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You gotta not let her grumpiness get to you.
Acknowledge it.
Sympathize with her.
Hug her.
Caress her.
Tell her that everything will be all right.
Then totally and utterly ignore it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It will pass! She'll be her happy, sweet self in a few days. Show up with a pint of Rocky Road ice cream...she'll love you again!:D
 

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...oops :rolleyes:
 
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Yes I am Flighty

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Periods happen

Hey sorry about your situation, but let me tell you , it happens. We get moody, I would just play it safe if I were you. Now I know Im horrible about being a life sucking ***** when Im bleeding from the crotch and well Im just moody. I act like I want my fiance to swoon over me all the time but the truth is its better when hes sort of cold. I hate to say it- "putting a girl in her place" may be what she needs if shes having trouble controlling her emotions. Just dont be patronizing and dont get all high and mighty, Understand and listen but dont be afraid to draw a line at all. Women like rational yet caring men.
 
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