"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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RedSky

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Ok, here's my sitiuation. I just found a girl i like on website called meet me. The problem however is that she seems quite popular and therefore i assume she gets lots of messages of guys already.

Therefore, i get the impression a generic opening like "Hey, how you doing?" wont get a response from her. To get her attention, i'm gonna need an opening thats abit more interesting.

So was wondering if anyone has any ideas of what i should say. Should i tell her from the off that i'm interested in her or just ask a random question or something else.

Cheers for any help
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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incognito42

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Here's a gem from Naughty Ninja. Spam it out. Wait for replys. Then drop the funny guy gimmick, ask how the sites treating them. When they reply tell them you're not on there much, that you don't have time, and tell them to give you theirnumber and you'll chat offline sometime. If you getthe number cool, if not move on to the next one. Dont exchange endless messages (or texts if you get the number) and setup a meet...

My roommate came into the room while I was looking at your profile and told me that if I didn’t message you, she would. Now, she’s straight, so that’s an probably an empty threat but she does have an eye for pretty chicks so I’m totally going to trust my mom’s judgment on this one. Let me know if she’s correct or else I swear to sweet baby Jesus I’m going to fulfill my promise of shipping her off to the “resting” home. It's time for you to be a super-heroine, or else jello time for mommy =)
 
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I've had countless chicks respond Ready to hand over their number from this. I think they're relieved to not be getting yet ANOTHER lame message in their inbox. In fact several respond back and basically say as much
 
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