Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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- Thread starter hcaz074
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Drowning
Don Juan
She doesn't like you. What she means by "I don't want a boyfriend right now." is "I don't want YOU as my boyfriend right now." Read the bible.
You can't get this girl to like you. Next her and move on. Read the bible. There will be millions of other girls.
READ THE BIBLE
...Did I mention...Read the bible?
PEPE LE PIU
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Drowning
Don Juan
(Psst...Read the bible.)
Sax God
Senior Don Juan
I concur.Originally posted by Drowning
Read the bible.
She doesn't like you. What she means by "I don't want a boyfriend right now." is "I don't want YOU as my boyfriend right now." Read the bible.
You can't get this girl to like you. Next her and move on. Read the bible. There will be millions of other girls.
READ THE BIBLE
...Did I mention...Read the bible?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What you need to do is to polish your game by reading the articles here: http://sucs.org/~nicholas/djb/index.php , then after you can try again on some other girls, and before you know it this one might just want a boyfriend again.
Good luck.
MacdaddyJr
Don Juan
But seriously, read the bible and then post. And read everything on the mainsite including the copyrights. If she told you this then and you didn't pick up that she has no attraction for you, then you got a lot of work to do to change the way you think and become a man.