"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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- Thread starter hcaz074
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Drowning
Don Juan
She doesn't like you. What she means by "I don't want a boyfriend right now." is "I don't want YOU as my boyfriend right now." Read the bible.
You can't get this girl to like you. Next her and move on. Read the bible. There will be millions of other girls.
READ THE BIBLE
...Did I mention...Read the bible?
PEPE LE PIU
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Drowning
Don Juan
(Psst...Read the bible.)
Sax God
Senior Don Juan
I concur.Originally posted by Drowning
Read the bible.
She doesn't like you. What she means by "I don't want a boyfriend right now." is "I don't want YOU as my boyfriend right now." Read the bible.
You can't get this girl to like you. Next her and move on. Read the bible. There will be millions of other girls.
READ THE BIBLE
...Did I mention...Read the bible?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What you need to do is to polish your game by reading the articles here: http://sucs.org/~nicholas/djb/index.php , then after you can try again on some other girls, and before you know it this one might just want a boyfriend again.
Good luck.
MacdaddyJr
Don Juan
But seriously, read the bible and then post. And read everything on the mainsite including the copyrights. If she told you this then and you didn't pick up that she has no attraction for you, then you got a lot of work to do to change the way you think and become a man.