"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Help me!

R

robtorrent

New Member
Joined
Oct 11, 2006
Messages
1
Reaction score
0
So I've been talking with this girl for bout 3-4months, really I've known her for bout 2years, she had recently broken up with her bf when I got back from Puerto Rico this summer and found out.. I so I decided to ask her for her #, she gave it to me in a heart-beat, and basically we ended up liking each other.. talking on the phone for endless nights and She basically says and acts as if she loves me more than anything in the world right now. 1-2months ago I had asked her out and ended up dumping her 2days l8r, the same week she slept over one of her girl friends house which has a brother, they ended up making out that night * thats all she told me. I always had in my mind she did MORE than just a kiss. ( she told me she made out with him the day after, when she got home* cause I asked ). After that i've been having mix'd feelings with the girls for over 1.5 months. Now bout a week ago one of my best friends told me That the guy she made out with( her gf's brother ) had sex with her that night, so basically he told his close friends which are also my friends, but only the one that told me is the one thats always been close to me and care ever since lil kids.. She denies she did anything with the guy other than a kiss.. but I doubt it.. and it bothers me. my friend says... forget bout it now you know the truth even if shes gona keep deniyin it you know what happened.. BUT I Just NEED to hear her SAY " I DID IT ".

What can I do...!?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

P

Phyzzle

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 19, 2006
Messages
1,963
Reaction score
35
OMG, it's none of your goddam business what some random chick does. I can't believe you're even asking about that.

You went on ONE date with her. Let it go.

(Also, DJ Bible, bottom of the page.)
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top