"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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p1aya

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Hi guys,
I'm a university student, and I've met 2 girls from my faculty. The problems is that our faculty is pretty small i.e. most people know each other! Both girls really like me and they're the ones who initiated first contact; they just walked up and gave me their numbers :kick: I will be graduating this year, and I'm planning to eventually stay with one of the girls. I know that I will screw my chances with either one if they find out! PLEASE give me some advice on how to pull this off.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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donjuanjovi

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Get to know them and pick the one you like more. Chances are if you screw around with both of them, and they find out, you will lose both.
 
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A little competition never hurt anyone. Until someone brings up an exclusivity clause you aren't doing anything wrong by dating both of the them.
 
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Flexion is right.
BUt do you really think you'll stop having female contact after graduatins? C'mon. You gotta eb kidding. Life goes on... and so your DJ days and self improvement.
 
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