"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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p1aya

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Hi guys,
I'm a university student, and I've met 2 girls from my faculty. The problems is that our faculty is pretty small i.e. most people know each other! Both girls really like me and they're the ones who initiated first contact; they just walked up and gave me their numbers :kick: I will be graduating this year, and I'm planning to eventually stay with one of the girls. I know that I will screw my chances with either one if they find out! PLEASE give me some advice on how to pull this off.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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donjuanjovi

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Get to know them and pick the one you like more. Chances are if you screw around with both of them, and they find out, you will lose both.
 
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A little competition never hurt anyone. Until someone brings up an exclusivity clause you aren't doing anything wrong by dating both of the them.
 
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Flexion is right.
BUt do you really think you'll stop having female contact after graduatins? C'mon. You gotta eb kidding. Life goes on... and so your DJ days and self improvement.
 
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