"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm a junior in high school and my friends aren't geeks but they aren't really the partying types either. I want to get invited to some parties and have a fun time in high school but I don't have any partying types in my classes because i'm in all high classes and most of the kids are really studious and a lot of them are nerdy. I'm a cool guy and I get along with everyone I meet almost but I just have no idea how to meet these people and get invited to parties. So how can I meet people and get invited to parties?
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ask a group of girls...
"Do you know of any parties this weekend?"

Plus, you just opened them with a innocent question, maybe she's going to it too ;), so get some rapport going and let the good times fly.
 

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taiwanesedude227 said:
I'm a junior in high school and my friends aren't geeks but they aren't really the partying types either. I want to get invited to some parties and have a fun time in high school but I don't have any partying types in my classes because i'm in all high classes and most of the kids are really studious and a lot of them are nerdy. I'm a cool guy and I get along with everyone I meet almost but I just have no idea how to meet these people and get invited to parties. So how can I meet people and get invited to parties?
DO you play any sports? In any school clubs? Dude...just because you're in all advanced classes doesn't mean the other kids don't party. Some of my friends are going to top schools and are one of the big partiers. But yah, you can ask some of the girls or even the guys. Do some small talk, just be chill, don't come off as desperate. Here's the thing though...if you have a reputation for being a nerd, you've lucked out. But if you aren't then just ask people you know who party. Be like..so you know of any parties goin on this weekend? And take it from there. Its not hard bro.
 
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