"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Help me with my college orientation

iCatch

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i'm having my college orientation next friday. what are some good conversation topics?

this is basically how the day is gonna go. there's a mandatory class for all freshmen. we have to stay with the people that are going to be in the same section for that class for the whole day. we're gonna get a tour and then have a barbecue at noon.

what are some good topics to talk about while walking around and at the barbecue? i already know everyone is gonna be like "what school did you go to?" and the obvious questions like that. i wanna stand out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well, I don't know if you guys are in groups or whatnot, but when I went(about a month ago) we were in groups and they helped us break the ice by playing games and stuff. Just ask what they like to do for fun, where they're from, what they think they're gonna major in, stuff like that. Idk if it'll help you stand out, worked for me though. GL and have fun.
 

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Mando said:
Well, I don't know if you guys are in groups or whatnot, but when I went(about a month ago) we were in groups and they helped us break the ice by playing games and stuff. Just ask what they like to do for fun, where they're from, what they think they're gonna major in, stuff like that. Idk if it'll help you stand out, worked for me though. GL and have fun.
those are the types of questions i'm trying to avoid. they're so typical. everyone in college expects those questions since everyone is new. anything that'll make me stand out?
 

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Like I said in a previous post somewhere. Ask them where they are from, if you know the place say something about it "oh I love that X store there!" or if you dont know the place ask them "whats the best part about living there." and then after that say something like "we should go find a similar spot in this new town" done and done date lined up right there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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