"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Help me understand the orlando Bloom hype...

Charisma

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Hey, since I don't follow fashion or anything, I just look at what the chiqs turn their heads for in masses.. but I don't get how millions of chiqs think that that Bloom dude is hot ? I read on askmen.com some post by a couple of girls/women who were talking about the dude like he was Godlike hot. What is it about him except for money and fame ? I might learn something new if I understood this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Easy...

look at his facialfeatures they are very nice, his style is nice, he is very manly generally. In the movies he has alot of makeup which makes him look very smooth. Stuff like that. Hot isn't JUST looks either, his stile and the fact that he plays some cool dudes in movies makes him hotter.
 

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I thoguth of that, but just look at it .. he plays an elve .. and he plays this total ***** in Pirates of t... Since they don't see him in real life or anything, at least I think, they only see him wearing that ****, and looking like a ***** .. or all pale from the elve stuff lol ..
 

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He's rich. He's handsome. He's famous.

Most of the time, 1 out of the 3 will do it.
 

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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm

he is very manly generally.
Uhh...HELL NO!!
When I think of manly, I think of guys like Keifer Sutherland, Vin Diesel, and Bruce Willis. These dudes played hardened, predatory characters that would tear Mr. Bloom apart. Can you imagine him casted in a serious military or crime drama?
Like DiCaprio before him, Bloom is just the latest poster boy for the metrosexual standard of "handsome" that's defined by deluded teenage girls.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr. Latte

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Ummm...Keifer Sutherland, Bruce Willis, and Vin Diesel are all people we'd consider "metrosexual" in real life. What you see in the movies is just people playing a character.
 

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I'd prefer to be orlando over vin diesel anyday, the ugliest person to ever be shown on a movie screen.
 

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Originally posted by WatchMeWalk
Can you imagine him casted in a serious military or crime drama?
Actually, Orlando Bloom did play a U.S. Army Ranger in "Black Hawk Down."
 

Mr. Latte

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He's also in "Troy" with Brad Pitt.
I agree, Vin Diesel looks like a gorilla. On top of that, he can't act at ALL.
 

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Dunno if its good or bad but ive been told by a few ppl that i look like Mr. Bloom!

:confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eileen

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I don't know what the attraction is but I wouldn't kick him out of my bed. He or Viggo .. or DiCaprio or Sutherland or Willis or Pitt.

Van Diesel can sleep with the dogs though.
 
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