Help me to play this right?

[Moneytalks]

I met a girl on Friday night and I was talking to her for ages, and she was obviously into me. She was kinoing me, getting close to me, smiling, laughing, eye contact etc. The thing is, I wasn't even trying to get into her to start with. I was just interested in my drink and talking to my friends, one of whom was hitting on the girl's sister. Regardless, i eventually realised but I couldn't hear what she was saying. She told another friend I was ignoring her...I simply couldn't hear her.

She walked off and my mate said "wtf? she's gone because you're being weird". So I thought "don't care" and started texting another girl. At which point the girl from before came and sat next to me, and I just said "alright?" and I heard her talking. I thought she was talking to my mate as I was busy texting. Anyway, I got the impression i pissed her off, but I misheard what she said when she walked off.

I just found her on Facebook and sent her the message:
"Hey, I don't know if you remember me but I was talking to you in Neo's on Friday. I just wanted to apologise because I think I had a bit too much to drink and acted like a bit of a ****.

Take care,
Moneytalks"

She replied:
"What? No. You weren't a ****, you were really nice to talk to xx"

Me:
"That's a relief. I can't remember much but I remember thinking you were nice [nice, really? I had no idea what to say here] so I wanted to make sure I didn't piss you off like xx"

Where can I take it from here?

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Dude no offense but sounds like your very new to the game or at least I hope!

Start off by reading the DJ Bible and start to learn how to develop more self confidence.

Why would you apologize when you did nothing wrong? If you apologize to girls when you do nothing wrong, I can only imagine what you would do when you really are wrong?

You have already communicated to this girl that you are a push over and that never builds attraction or gets panties wet.

Read the Bible ASAP






PIMP

 

[Pierce]

Never apologize. If you were interested in her at the place you should have asked her for her number. Don't stalk these girl on facebook. These h0es ain't sh!t.

I mean this still might work out for you but just remember what I said for future references.

 

[Trump]

I met a girl on Friday night and I was talking to her for ages, and she was obviously into me. She was kinoing me, getting close to me, smiling, laughing, eye contact etc. The thing is, I wasn't even trying to get into her to start with. I was just interested in my drink and talking to my friends, one of whom was hitting on the girl's sister. Regardless, i eventually realised but I couldn't hear what she was saying. She told another friend I was ignoring her...I simply couldn't hear her.

She walked off and my mate said "wtf? she's gone because you're being weird". So I thought "don't care" and started texting another girl. At which point the girl from before came and sat next to me, and I just said "alright?" and I heard her talking. I thought she was talking to my mate as I was busy texting. Anyway, I got the impression i pissed her off, but I misheard what she said when she walked off.

I just found her on Facebook and sent her the message:
"Hey, I don't know if you remember me but I was talking to you in Neo's on Friday. I just wanted to apologise because I think I had a bit too much to drink and acted like a bit of a ****.

Take care,
Moneytalks"

She replied:
"What? No. You weren't a ****, you were really nice to talk to xx"

Me:
"That's a relief. I can't remember much but I remember thinking you were nice [nice, really? I had no idea what to say here] so I wanted to make sure I didn't piss you off like xx"

Where can I take it from here?

Texting when a girl is showing signs she is into you is narcissistic. Instead of apologizing, how about asking her out and getting something from it.

You are hung up on this one girl, danger zone.

 

[Nikoli]

Turn it around into something funny about your hearing and how the alchohol impairs it instead of apologizing.

You have to imagine that you are ramping up the tension in your interctions and the only thing that apologizing does is show you are boring and predictable and lets all the air out of your interaction.