oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Ive tried all this stuff myself but ive figured i need help. Im 6'4 and weigh 165. I wanna weigh about 200-210 but i need help cause i cant get it done alone. Dont flame me, i searched and **** but just need help.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Help me put together a routine and gain weight
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oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
I just cant seem to gain weight. I was at 170 a month ago when i would workout reguarly, but i wanna gain MORE weight than that. I weigh as much as i did 4 yrs ago.
Phantasmal
Senior Don Juan
What type of diet are you on?
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
Eat a lot of good food, work out hard, and sleep well!
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
A bad one. I just moved out so i eat junk food most of the time. Im lucky if i eat twice a day.
Then why are you complaining that you're not gaining weight? This is a terrible place for resources on bodybuilding - better left for discussing personal experiences with herpes. Go to the elite-fitness or bodybuilding forums.
line_in_the_sand
Don Juan
<Eat a lot of good food, work out hard, and sleep well!>
This is the correct answer.
Please allow me to elaborate:
TRAINING:
We all have different recovery abilities, so volume probably won't work for you unless you're very lucky. One of the best routines there is for an average person is the following.
Monday:
Chin-ups or pulldowns, 2 sets, 6-10 reps, increase resistance or reps every workout
A bicep movement, 2 sets, 6-10 reps
Squats, 2 sets, 10 reps, ALMOST to failure
Deadlifts, 1 set, 6-10 reps
Friday:
Dips or bench press, 2 sets, 6-10 reps
Some sort of above the head presses for shoulders, 2 sets, 6-10 reps
An extra side delt movement if needed, 1 set, 15-30 reps (high rep work often does wonders for the shoulders, try it)
Abs, personally I recommend crunches with weights, 2 sets, 12 reps
All sets to positive failure, that is, no forced reps or rest-pauses.
NUTRITION:
Minimum of 1.5 grams of protein pr pound of bodyweight, I'd go to 2 grams pr pound.
Get a good amount of fat in, especially essential fatty acids like olive oil and flax seed oil.
Keep carbs under control, the amount of carbs has a strong correlation to the amount of fat gained/not gained. However, you need carbs postworkout, and I'd take them in for breakfast too. Do not take them in in your last meal.
Multivitamin, zinc, magnesium and calcium should be taken in daily.
And don't expect changes at first. It usually takes a minimum of four weeks to see changes in the mirror. However, you SHOULD get stronger (increase weight or reps) on almost every workout, if you're not, something is not working as it should.
Please understand that MOST people will have great gains on a routine like this, simply because they can't recover from the amount of work the volume routines force the body to go through.
I give full credit of my training and nutrition knowledge to iron addict at www.ironaddicts.com, and doggcrapp, at www.intensemuscle.com.
Hope this helps!
This is the correct answer.
Please allow me to elaborate:
TRAINING:
We all have different recovery abilities, so volume probably won't work for you unless you're very lucky. One of the best routines there is for an average person is the following.
Monday:
Chin-ups or pulldowns, 2 sets, 6-10 reps, increase resistance or reps every workout
A bicep movement, 2 sets, 6-10 reps
Squats, 2 sets, 10 reps, ALMOST to failure
Deadlifts, 1 set, 6-10 reps
Friday:
Dips or bench press, 2 sets, 6-10 reps
Some sort of above the head presses for shoulders, 2 sets, 6-10 reps
An extra side delt movement if needed, 1 set, 15-30 reps (high rep work often does wonders for the shoulders, try it)
Abs, personally I recommend crunches with weights, 2 sets, 12 reps
All sets to positive failure, that is, no forced reps or rest-pauses.
NUTRITION:
Minimum of 1.5 grams of protein pr pound of bodyweight, I'd go to 2 grams pr pound.
Get a good amount of fat in, especially essential fatty acids like olive oil and flax seed oil.
Keep carbs under control, the amount of carbs has a strong correlation to the amount of fat gained/not gained. However, you need carbs postworkout, and I'd take them in for breakfast too. Do not take them in in your last meal.
Multivitamin, zinc, magnesium and calcium should be taken in daily.
And don't expect changes at first. It usually takes a minimum of four weeks to see changes in the mirror. However, you SHOULD get stronger (increase weight or reps) on almost every workout, if you're not, something is not working as it should.
Please understand that MOST people will have great gains on a routine like this, simply because they can't recover from the amount of work the volume routines force the body to go through.
I give full credit of my training and nutrition knowledge to iron addict at www.ironaddicts.com, and doggcrapp, at www.intensemuscle.com.
Hope this helps!
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Cause im trying to get help, but thanks for nothing anyways.
line in the sand- thanks for helping
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
There are in fact numerous people on this site who know quite a bit about bodybuilding.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Help with what? Christ man, if you're not gaining weight, you KNOW it's because you're just not eating enough, and don't have the discipline to maintain good nutritional habits.
Now you're getting people to motivate you? I think not. Get off your lazy ass and go do something about it yourself!
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Or maybe its cause afford all this healty ass food. Think a little be before you start going off when its really not a big deal. Chill out, if this bothers you DONT READ IT!!