"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Help me psychoanalyze this girl

Canadian Catnip

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I was sitting in one of my favorite coffee shops the other day. There is a pretty cute young girl that works there.

While I was sitting there another cute young girl comes in and drops off a resume.

After the girl looking for a job leaves one of the girls says to her co-worker "we don't need any more really cute girls working here"

That got me curious as to why women say things like that. Anyone got any thoughts as to why she would say that. I thought the girl saying that was more attractive than the one wanting a job.

Could she just have low self esteem? Any ideas?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Interceptor

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Many women inherently resent other women for taking attention away from them.
They don't want more 'competition'.
 

CFERD

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True. Women decide whether other women are cute or not just as quickly if not quicker than men do. I've always heard that some women feel threatened by attractive girls. I think it has to do with the attention factor, but probably just as much to do with their own insecurities and the feeling of being compared.
 

DarkShade

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I think all places need more cute girls working there. Anywhere. Everywhere.
 

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Canadian Catnip said:
I was sitting in one of my favorite coffee shops the other day. There is a pretty cute young girl that works there.

While I was sitting there another cute young girl comes in and drops off a resume.

After the girl looking for a job leaves one of the girls says to her co-worker "we don't need any more really cute girls working here"

That got me curious as to why women say things like that. Anyone got any thoughts as to why she would say that. I thought the girl saying that was more attractive than the one wanting a job.

Could she just have low self esteem? Any ideas?
Yeah,I agree with Interceptor. Women don't like competition with other attractive women. They see other women as somehow a threat to them.The funny thing is that if this girl had been fat or ugly,they might have hired her simply to make themselves look better.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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theunflushables

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It's a known fact that women secretly hate each other.
 
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