"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Help Me Plz Fast

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OK ok i need help cuse this happens alot to me and i dont know wht to do. Ok thers this chick (of corse)lol any way i like her (agin of corse what ells would i talk about ) lol well i talk to her and show intrest to her and just act friendly and nice to her and we lagh and joke alot all that nice stuff blabla. Anyway i got a message from a friend who im friends with on myspace and she asked me if i like the girl i like (aka jamie). First of all shes friends with jamie, Second of all i have never told anyone about me likeng her. So jamie must think i do and asked her friend to find out (who is also a friend of mine) but i dont know for shure.

WHAT SHOULD I DO tell her friend i do like her or say no or just dont anser.PLZ HELP ME i have had this prob befor in the past and i have no idea what to do or say


PLZ hellp

Sorry for bad mispelling i might be 17 but i cant spell lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Uhh ok

I know that but like how without making it to obvious cuse if she dosent like me she wouldent see me as a friend or anything cuse that has happend befor
 

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What the hell? I hope you guys aren't serious. If a girl's friend ever asks you if you like her, just say "she's alright." No more, no less. OK?
 

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"I don't know, she's been throwing herself at me lately..it's kind of turning me off. "
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i am me

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i would be honest. "ya but dont tell her" (even tho u KNOW she will). girls gossip and overexaggerate things alot. if u say "no" or "shes ok" then the girl will get the idea that u dont like her that way and shell give up (high school girls usually give up pretty easy)

its not playing hard to get but unless u know wut ur doing (if u did then u wouldnt be asking this question) then just be honest rite now
 
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