Help me please

[Dead By Dawn]

Hello I would appreciate it if you could help me in the situation I am currently in. I have had two girls ask me to go to the prom(one through friends the other herself), I will refer to these as A and B.
First a group of girls asked me out with girl A, I said no and now girl A seems to be ignoring me so I would like to know how I could sort things out because she is a nice girl even though shes not prom material.
Girl B asks me out in front of my friends and her friends and because she would not leave me alone I thought she was not that bad and I did not want her ignoring me as well, so I eventually said yes. What I'm wondering is how do I get her to drop me? Will her dropping me lower the probability of me geting the girls I want.
What I was thinking of doing is what girls do, I remember reading something like "women are like monkeys, they won't let go of one branch until they grab the next" because I guess shes better than not going with a girl(shes about a 7 on my scale) but I feel that if I get two girls to ask me to the prom in five days I should be able to get a better quality girl with a little effort.
Its ironic because in year 10 I thought I would end up without a date to the prom, I guess I'm never satisfied even when I exceed my expectations.
Any help is appreciated, by the way I have read the DJ bible over the holidays and I think that the attitude that teaches you has changed my way of viewing life. I've gone from one of the lazy losers to someone who is in control of their life. It really gives me a buzz knowing that I am redoing coursework even when I dont have to, starting up more sports and becoming more interested in my education when this time six weeks ago I was the laziest person you could meet, following life wherever it took me(usually nowhere).

 

[DJ4Real]

Believe it or not, it's harder to get a girl to drop you than make her want you.

And no, you'll do fine if you drop her.

 

[YAMON dj]

oh wow i know what u mean. i have this girl who keeps caling me to do stuff with her friends, (i saw her for one week last year at camp) and ever since she's been IM'ing me and calling me, and the obvious signs of 'i dont like her' dont get thru to her. She IMs me and either i ignore her or just do some 1 word response.. she doesnt get the messagE!!!! and its so hard to drop her cause if i do she'll be all crying to every1.. and she knows ppl in my school..
lol
well on ur problem, i'd say just go with the one you like more. try to explain to the other one, although she probably wont really listen...

i'm scared as hell about what i'm gonna do for the prom.. i'm in 10th grade but still, theres a dance and prom in 11th and 12th...

will a girl ask me..? will too many ask me..? will no1 ask me???? very scary... i guess if no1 i like ends up askin me i'll just go with one of my friends whos a girl.. just as friends.

 

[Dead By Dawn]

Originally posted by DJ4Real
Believe it or not, it's harder to get a girl to drop you than make her want you.

Yes thats so true, somehow she has my mobile number now and asked me what I was going to wear and I tried telling her that I was thinking of dying my hair electric blue and putting it into a mohikan but she just laughed. You see a minute after I agreed to go to the prom with her she said "you can't come looking goth though" I thought that may put her off. I guess I'll just have to be a man about this and tell her that I don't want to go to the prom with her. I am not good at handling these situations do you have any idea what I should say?

Originally posted by YAMON dj
will a girl ask me..? will too many ask me..? will no1 ask me???? very scary... i guess if no1 i like ends up askin me i'll just go with one of my friends whos a girl.. just as friends.

You'll get asked. The girls don't wait for things like this. They'll try to snatch the best guy they can because they would commit suicide sooner than go to the prom alone. You should see how happy some of the girls get when they get accepted. Its like they've found the meaning of life or something. The good thing is the best guys have been taken up but the best girls haven't. They'll wait until further on and start to panic and ask out the guys left.

Thanks for the advice guys.

 

[DJ4Real]

Tell her this " I don't need a boss for a prom date. Good luck finding a new date because I will not go with you. I'm going to dye my hair, dress how I want, and get a new date."