"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fabrizio

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Help Me Please (advise needed)

alright, there is this chick, she is in my math class, and we sit next to each other, she is on the soccer team, and i am a manager. well, i never liked her before, but for some reason i like her now.
we talk a lot, and flirt, but she knows i am a "bad boy", she knows about a lot of bad sh*t i have done and stuff. she doesnt drink or smoke, and i do.
well, i sorta wanna ask her out, but i am afraid of asking her cause i might get turned down, solely for the reason she knows i am a "thug" that is up to no good.

any advice on how to proceed from this, should i get her number, and then ask her out, or just ask her out of the blue?

any advice would be appreciated
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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G_Nice_06

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Well I think you should ask for her number first. My reason behind that is so that you'll have more time to talk her into thinkin that things will change when she's with you. If she doesn't wanna go out with u when you ask then tell her you'd change just for her

Now I'm not sayin that you really have to give up all your sinful pleassures (though you should) you just have to make her think that you have.
 

DJ Hawtness

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If anything, she probably DOES want to go out with you.

Don't be a chicken****, go for the number always. You're a bad boy, which means you have a lot to offer to her.

Real DJ's aren't scared to ask girls out, it's unattractive and stupid.

Use a good quote if you really need to be intact when asking girls such as:

"TODAY is the DAY!!"
"A man can measure up to anyone, all he needs to do is try!"
"Isolate or Masturbate"
"In between TITIES, or constantly feeling ****ty!"

Be creative, go mack.

You were born to own these chicks, stop with this sissy ****.
 

Fabrizio

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so, lets say i get the number, talk to her for a bit then ask her out, what if she says no, and her reason is that i get in trouble too much, smoke w++d, and drink and stuff, should i tell her i'll change, cause that would be putting her on a pedestal, like i would do anything for her

or should i just be like i wont do it as much

maybe i'm thinking too far ahead

any other advice?
 

familyguyfan

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Originally posted by Fabrizio
so, lets say i get the number, talk to her for a bit then ask her out, what if she says no, and her reason is that i get in trouble too much, smoke w++d, and drink and stuff, should i tell her i'll change, cause that would be putting her on a pedestal, like i would do anything for her

or should i just be like i wont do it as much

maybe i'm thinking too far ahead

any other advice?
Tell her you've been cutting back on them, and may be qutting soon. That way it won't look like you're doing it just for her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Michael Chief

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the fact that she sees u as a "bad boy" will only heighten your chances in her being interested in you. this is probably a main reason that she flirts with u in the first place. Bad boys are exciting. they are adventurous. they are fun. they are sexy. they epitomize confidence.
There's nothing holding you back here except your FEAR of rejection. Get rid of that fear and you will become unstoppable and massively successful.
 

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"There's nothing holding you back here except your FEAR of rejection. Get rid of that fear and you will become unstoppable and massively successful." Agreed!
 

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okay.... well... before you can consider asking her out.... does she show signs of interest?
 

Fabrizio

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yea, she does sometimes. we never done much kino, but we always smile at each other, and look into each others eyes after we sort of flirt. i think she does like me, the only reason i think she will reject me is cause of what i do, and also cause i'm this bald headed goateed mexican, like someone u see off a los angeles gangster movie. and shes this pretty, pretty browned hair, blueyed girl.

u see the incompatibility, or is it just me?
 
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