"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok... There's woman at work that evrytime I say "Hi" or anything else and I mean anything, all she says is "Hey..." with a big smile and then looks away. She seems pretty shy normally. I did say one day that"If you keep smiling like that some one will wonder what's going on." :cool: Is the cat out of the bag?? :confused:

not sure what to do here because I have rule that I won't date anyone at work.(I had a bad experience dating at work, actually I keep having them cause I see her every day.) Now that I have finally got my DJ life in full swing, maybe she's seeing a different me?? Have I finally broken the AFC in me?? Should I date her?

Any help would be great.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

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If you're flipping burgers at McDonalds, sure go ahead. If you got a decent job, forget it.

job > b!tch
 
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Originally posted by ADifferentKindofDJ


not sure what to do here because I have rule that I won't date anyone at work.(I had a bad experience dating at work, actually I keep having them cause I see her every day.)
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Should I date her?
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