"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ok... There's woman at work that evrytime I say "Hi" or anything else and I mean anything, all she says is "Hey..." with a big smile and then looks away. She seems pretty shy normally. I did say one day that"If you keep smiling like that some one will wonder what's going on." :cool: Is the cat out of the bag?? :confused:

not sure what to do here because I have rule that I won't date anyone at work.(I had a bad experience dating at work, actually I keep having them cause I see her every day.) Now that I have finally got my DJ life in full swing, maybe she's seeing a different me?? Have I finally broken the AFC in me?? Should I date her?

Any help would be great.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you're flipping burgers at McDonalds, sure go ahead. If you got a decent job, forget it.

job > b!tch
 
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Originally posted by ADifferentKindofDJ


not sure what to do here because I have rule that I won't date anyone at work.(I had a bad experience dating at work, actually I keep having them cause I see her every day.)
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Should I date her?
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