"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GaryUranga

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its kinda like an internal dilemma here, so theres this girl lets call her "P", anyways Ive been pretty AFC before and Im just recently starting to get into the whole DJ mindset, anyways, I wanna be confortablearound EVERYONE socially, thats my main goal right now, this is where P comes up she fits pretty well into the type of girl I like, she has a bf whos acts like an AFC kinda, I just started noticing P lately, and Ive built up expectations already, Im in her social circle, kinda, we know poeople in common, and on tuesday we had bits of convo, any thoughts on how to proceed here? keep in mind that Im still breaking confort zones with people in general
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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GaryUranga

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I need to find more girls that are my type so far this is the only girl that I actually am attracted to at school, Im not really going after her, I dunno what to do here, maybe building some friendly attraction first? Im prety sure I could get her from her AFC bf, but thats not right :p and Im also trying to build lotza confort around girls so Id like like to keep her there
 
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