"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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GaryUranga

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its kinda like an internal dilemma here, so theres this girl lets call her "P", anyways Ive been pretty AFC before and Im just recently starting to get into the whole DJ mindset, anyways, I wanna be confortablearound EVERYONE socially, thats my main goal right now, this is where P comes up she fits pretty well into the type of girl I like, she has a bf whos acts like an AFC kinda, I just started noticing P lately, and Ive built up expectations already, Im in her social circle, kinda, we know poeople in common, and on tuesday we had bits of convo, any thoughts on how to proceed here? keep in mind that Im still breaking confort zones with people in general
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I need to find more girls that are my type so far this is the only girl that I actually am attracted to at school, Im not really going after her, I dunno what to do here, maybe building some friendly attraction first? Im prety sure I could get her from her AFC bf, but thats not right :p and Im also trying to build lotza confort around girls so Id like like to keep her there
 
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