Help me out with this new girl!...

[Ken785]

So ive been talking to this girl for a little over 1 month now. I met her at the club last month and we really hit it off. The thing is the whole time, all weve been doing is talking on the phone. The only times ive met her is the time we first met at the club and the week after at another lounge.

We get along great over the phone, but the thing is the first couple weeks ive known her, i asked her out like 3 times, the first time she said yes, but said it'll be weeks...WTF?? Then the second and third times i asked her she said no...this is the point where she kept acting like she didnt care much about me but the week after..things seemed to shift and i can tell she was getting into me on a deeper level.

But shes keeps playing her games....

To give you an example, we were texting each other one time when we were both at seperate bars getting drunk...she basically texted me teasing me saying..

HB8: "Game over, maybe i should make it so i can get away"

...that was after i teased her earlier when we were playing a texting game saying that i won and she lost.

Then i texted her...

Ken785: "So you find a winning lottery ticket, would you throw it away too?"

HB8: "Some one else deserves it, not me"

HB8: "I know you feel that way now...but i cant except you if i cant except myself..so if youre less nice to me it'll be easier for me"

Then i got tired of the bullsh!t and basically told her..

Ken785: "If you tell me you really feel that way about me, im saying goodbye and changing my number...im serious!"

HB8: "I dont really mean it, i wouldnt want that too.."

Then after that shes been nothing but niceness and texting and calling me all the time. I dont know what to do with this b!tch...i know her interest level is high...but she keeps on mentioning that im her "friend" and "buddy"...i dont like that.

I KNOW her interest level is high...Right now, i've ignored her for 3 days randomly and she texts me..

HB8: " 'Did you die???' quote finding nemo- Where did u run to? I miss my buddy"

That was about 7 hours ago at about 10am and its now 5:30pm and ive yet to contact her.

I know this b!tch is not "FriendZoning" me....I know shes interested but just likes to play games...


Should i just call her straight up and give her an ultimatum and tell her im not her friend. Either quit playing games and fvckin go out with me or im walking....if she doesnt give me the right answer im NEXTing her....The DJ part tells me to give her that ultimatum and quit wasting my time already beating around the bush....

Which im going to do, but how would i do it??


How would you guys set her straight??

 

[Warrior74]

1. you don't 'go out' with FB's you **** them and go your separate ways until next time.

2. Ultimatums are for the weak. You have no DJ part of you telling you do give one. That's the frustrated chump talking.

3. You have her on a pedestal. HB8? Ratings are for children. Girls are either ****able or not. That's it.

4. Spin plates.

5. Stop texting so much.

6. Ask her to come chill at your crib. If she says no...don't contact her for a while and call some other girls and see whats up with them. Hit her up in a like a few weeks or a month and see whats up. Stop putting so much value in this one girl.

 

[yama600rr]

why do people text so much? i dont understand that... its freaking not cool. i think you're taking things too slow, talking to a girl on the phone for a month with seeing her is too long. i think shes bored of you.