Last weekend when I was at a club i noticed this girl and I think she noticed me to cus we smiled to each other once or twice. She also walked infront of me about 5 times in just a couple of minutes. I usually really shy but I don't know what happend cus i decided to go and talk to her. I walked to her and whispered in her ear and said : "you're the most beautiful girl i have seen in a long time" and left. Later when I got home at 6 in the morning my Computer was still on and I decieded to go online and see if there any photos of me and my friends. (This is in Sweden in a city who is not that big) But when i went on the page where the photos were (it's kinda like myspace) and logged in and I saw a girl on "people who has just logged on" who I thoght i recognized and when i clicked on her profile I saw the girl from the club! Faith has got to do somethin with this or Im I just crazy? I wrote to her and she was really happy that i found her and we have talked a couple of times now on internet. She's on vacatation right now but she will be back in a couple of days and I dont know what do now? Should I just ask her out or what? I don't have good experience with beautiful girls and i dont wont to mess this up. Help me gain some confidence.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Help me out with this beautiful girl
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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No one is responding, so I'll help you out kid. I guess you haven't read the DJ Bible??
You never tell a woman who you don't know that she is beautiful -- if you approach her she already knows that you like how she looks!! Would you have approached her if you were not attracted to her? NO!! When you compliment a woman too much you give her the power and when you idolize her then you become blind and deaf to her reality!!
Of course you should ask her out - are you retarded?
Ask her out to a fun activity.
You never tell a woman who you don't know that she is beautiful -- if you approach her she already knows that you like how she looks!! Would you have approached her if you were not attracted to her? NO!! When you compliment a woman too much you give her the power and when you idolize her then you become blind and deaf to her reality!!
Of course you should ask her out - are you retarded?
Ask her out to a fun activity.
selfmademob
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She probaly thought u wanted to fvck her when you whispered that in her ear. You perv
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Good job, even though I don't particularly like how you told her she was beautiful, I liked how you left because it showed you weren't waiting for her response. And like LMS said, just go for it dude, you have nothing to lose, ask her out on a date.
always tell girls they are buetyful.. keep being the confident guy with smothness like butter.Last Man Standing said:No one is responding, so I'll help you out kid. I guess you haven't read the DJ Bible??
You never tell a woman who you don't know that she is beautiful -- if you approach her she already knows that you like how she looks!! Would you have approached her if you were not attracted to her? NO!! When you compliment a woman too much you give her the power and when you idolize her then you become blind and deaf to her reality!!
Of course you should ask her out - are you retarded?
Ask her out to a fun activity.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I really appreciate your help guys but I still need some tips. I mean this is a beautiful girl that can date who ever she wants so I need to play my card right if i want to date her, and these cards betta be good cards haha.
How should I approach her and what kind of dates? I thought about making her dinner but I dont know.
I may have been smooth when I whispered in her ear I dont know how long i can keep been smooth because of my lack om "smoothles experiance"
How should I approach her and what kind of dates? I thought about making her dinner but I dont know.
I may have been smooth when I whispered in her ear I dont know how long i can keep been smooth because of my lack om "smoothles experiance"
selfmademob
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ur a fag
MacAvoy
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I actually like the way you told her she was beautiful then walked away. However you should have followed it up 10-15 mins later and approached her. Read the bible (link in sig) and in the future you won't need to ask us what to do. As for now, just ask her out for a fun activity, she's obviously interested.
Remember you are the prize, don't put her up on a pedastool because your headed for disaster with that mindset.
Remember you are the prize, don't put her up on a pedastool because your headed for disaster with that mindset.
first dont chat with her anymore!
The telling her shes beautiful isnt that bad, but for me it just came off a lil bit childish (when a kindergarten kid is in love with his teacher )
but it isnt lost yet just remember to not talk to her over the internet anymore!
Dont forget to have topics you can discuss with her with in real life and by chatting you lose them!!
Also dont forget to be mysterious you give that all away by chatting and do not i repeat do not ask her out over the IM... you have her number right? if not then ask her over the IM and stop chatting with her.
and then for the date: An activity date is way better than a "romantic" first date
dont forget were not in a cheese movie from the 90s where the nice guy gets the girl were in reallife where the guy who kinos,c&fs,etc.
And dont put her on the podest (you just did that) just try to C&f a lil more (not to much though)
And also dont forget: its better to fail than to regret
The telling her shes beautiful isnt that bad, but for me it just came off a lil bit childish (when a kindergarten kid is in love with his teacher
)but it isnt lost yet just remember to not talk to her over the internet anymore!
Dont forget to have topics you can discuss with her with in real life and by chatting you lose them!!
Also dont forget to be mysterious you give that all away by chatting
and do not i repeat do not ask her out over the IM... you have her number right? if not then ask her over the IM and stop chatting with her.and then for the date: An activity date is way better than a "romantic" first date
dont forget were not in a cheese movie from the 90s where the nice guy gets the girl were in reallife where the guy who kinos,c&fs,etc.
And dont put her on the podest (you just did that) just try to C&f a lil more (not to much though)
And also dont forget: its better to fail than to regret
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Stop idolizing her! Do not cater to her!! This is many guys mistake here -- because you think she is soooooo beautiful, you feel as if you have to impress her!!! No you don't! Do not cook dinner for her!!! Are you her Mother or a potential romantic interest?DeMarco19 said:
Don't act like you're unworthy of her - this is the wrong attitude!! Now be a man and just ask her to do a fun activity, and don't be nervous or stressed out - it will show!! You don't have her - so you have nothing to lose - but only to gain!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.