"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Help me out on this one :)

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So i got these 2 phonesnumbers last night while clubbing.
Girl 1: HB8
Girl 2: HB7

I took girl 1's number.
I later on danced with girl 2. She was grinding on me, i kissed her on the neck and shyt, then she initiated a kissing session.
Girl 1 stood right next to us dancing with her friends. I was too drunk to care though :/

Later on when the club was about to close, i went up to girl 1 askin how the night was or some shyt. She was like go away.
She went to the ladies room.
She then came back, and i said whats wrong?

She said, you was grinding on that skanky girl. I was like yeah? we were just dancing. She said, "tss look, I need a man, not a boy"
I said, aight, keep lookin for a man then :) and bounced with a smile

Now I wanna have sex with girl 1. (I know i'll probably be sexing girl 2 so she is out of the picture for now)

So what should be my next move?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Um, to give up?

'Girl 1' is not interested now. The chances of you having sex with her now are slimmer than an Ethopian anorexic on Slimfast.

But like you said... 'you will probably be sexing' Girl 2... so why not just focus on her?? That'd be by next move anyways. Forget about the first one, concentrate on the girl who you've got a realistic chance of getting laid with... and for God's sake stop being so damn greedy!!

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Originally posted by Triple X
Um, to give up?

'Girl 1' is not interested now. The chances of you having sex with her now are slimmer than an Ethopian anorexic on Slimfast.

But like you said... 'you will probably be sexing' Girl 2... so why not just focus on her?? That'd be by next move anyways. Forget about the first one, concentrate on the girl who you've got a realistic chance of getting laid with... and for God's sake stop being so damn greedy!!

:D
Nice attitude you got going there :) GIVE UP????
I mean, why not try when you have the chance?
Atleast i can call her and say something, the worst thing she can do is hang up.
But the thing is, what to say to make her change her mind? :D
 

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You can always use the 'I was sooooo drunk, I didn't know what I was doing' line perhaps... but that sounds a little supplicating I guess.

How about 'Hey! Good news! I've become a man now!' or something 'C&F' along those lines to try and maybe get a laugh out of her, which you could convert into a conversation, then sex or something.

I don't know man... just some ideas I had. I said 'give up' before because I truly believe with that girl, this is your best option.
 

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aight this is what i wrote in a sms

"Hey :) that girl must have put something in my drink last night!
Nah just kiddin, I feel you actually.
But hey I'm a man now! Overnight magic u know :p
How you doing today? You probably wont even respond but hey it's your call.
Me, I'd like to get to know u. You seem cool. Peace"

Anything wrong there?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Never mind
Bending to her will are you? She wants a man you tell her you’re a man. You played this entire thing wrong. Keep this in mind man always wants what he can’t have. You don’t really want this girl you just want her because she doesn’t want you.

The Mack
 

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Ok. This is my take.

You got number from both HBs
You grind with HB2 gives you social proof for HB1
HB1 is understandably jealous and seeks revalidation.
You get $hit tested by HB1
You fail $hit test..
HB1 gets validation and you become devalued..
Later you ask her whats wrong like you CARE.
You are now a chump in her eyes!!!

comments???
 

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Originally posted by rapsta


She said, you was grinding on that skanky girl. I was like yeah? we were just dancing.
Ugh i hate grinding. I wouldn't want you either if i were a girl and you were grinding on multiple girls, especially when i could see you. Wouldn't call it 'dancing' either. More like dry humping in the middle of the room like a couple of monkeys.
 

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Originally posted by rapsta
comments are that she actually called me half an hour ago :D
yip..... girls are REALLY easy to get into their pants in a situation like this.... So keep gunning girl 2, but girl one can be al yours if u just play your cards right.;) Just dont mention the other girl to the other, ever:D


Laterz...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah...she called you but I still think you placated her too much.

But hey I'm a man now! Overnight magic u know
You probably wont even respond but hey it's your call.
You got lucky IMO, next time if you're gonna message a girl that tests you, try to sound like a man.
 

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Originally posted by Blatant truth
Yeah...she called you but I still think you placated her too much.





You got lucky IMO, next time if you're gonna message a girl that tests you, try to sound like a man.

Okay man. How would a man sound like in this situation?
Me and my friend spoke to 2 girls in a bar last night. One was 31 the other one was 25. They kept saying "you're sooo young" etc etc.
I mean wtf? was it because we smiled way too much? or what?
 
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